Chip Chick
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“That’s a hideous breach of privacy. I don’t think I’d ever be able to forgive them.”
“Your girlfriend is amazingly forgiving because in her shoes I’d be going medieval. Go medieval yourself. They deserve it. And make sure they know that it’s you angry, not her.”
“The weirdest thing to me is that they did this as a group, and had an intervention style meeting with you.”
“I won’t lie, my friends and I have done internet snooping on partners, exes, tinder dates, etc. Some friends have had access to court records and can get more info than a cursory internet search. Information is out there, and sometimes if something is off can make a huge difference on personal safety.”
“But why, WHY would your family all get together to discuss this as a group? I could see one person being suspicious or worried and digging on their own – but this sounds like a coordinated effort.”
“Like many talks about her background, hiring a professional together, and then presenting it to you with everyone there. This is incredibly bizarre to me.”
“I could see one family member meeting with you privately to raise a concern, ask if you know about xyz, and then leave you to make your own decisions.”
“But all of them at once? What the hell did they think they would accomplish by violating your and her privacy so insanely?!”
