Chip Chick
“But to be absolutely blunt it is about weight. Beating around the bush and telling people kind lies are not doing them any favors.”
“Ya it’s gonna come off as being an a****** but people need a wake-up call. 100 pounds overweight is very unhealthy and is absolutely going to affect their dating pretty severely.”
“It’s just harsh reality.”
“Feeding them delusions and telling them they don’t need to change is honestly pretty cruel when the same thing will just keep happening over and over but now with a reinforced world view that they don’t have to take accountability for it and change themselves for the better.”
“She’s absolutely trying to get the attention of the potential matches with disingenuous pictures. She’s setting herself up to fail over and over. That’s toxic and unsustainable.”
“The problem isn’t her weight. The problem is that she isn’t being honest about it on the profile. And that the men only realize that she doesn’t look like her pictures when they meet her in person.”
“It’s simply the truth that the majority of physically fit people are less likely to be interested in a person who isn’t into fitness and who is very overweight.”
“Yes, I’m speaking anecdotally, and yes there are of course a few outliers, but I’ve yet to meet a model type or fit person who was attracted to a person who has a drastically different look and lifestyle.”
