Chip Chick
“It says a lot that your friend is dismissing all the guys that are closer to her own fitness level. If she’s happy to hold out for a model who is interested in dating her, that’s fine, but realistically it could be a long wait, and she’s plainly “fatphobic” herself if that’s her approach.”
“If your friend isn’t interested in your advice then obviously stop giving it now – if you continue then…it’s pointless and becomes rude after a point.”
“I would say that you probably had to be blunt otherwise she would not have gotten the message, and honestly even your bluntness was still kind in my book.”
“It is funny to me that she wants men to love her as she is but she is not looking to date men who are a hundred pounds overweight. You are right that she should either bring down her standards or elevate her status by matching what she wants.”
“If you want a fit attractive person, you definitely should be trying to be a fit attractive person, otherwise you are just being unrealistic on top of being shallow.”
“I also don’t understand the whole fatphobia thing, realistically speaking, most men that she is after are not going to be attracted to a woman who is 100 pounds overweight.”
“She cannot want good-looking fit men but be fat and unfit. It is not fatphobic to point that out. She might have a great personality, but she is being shallow while demanding others not to be.”
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