“We’re having a nervous breakdown because you’re responsible for the kids and the meal and the holiday. Forget that crap.”
“You’ve never once been thanked, had an offer of help, and had people blatantly ignore your request for support.”
“You gave these people a chance to make the “tradition” sustainable, they chose not to take it. Take care of yourself or see if you can join a friend instead.”
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