Chip Chick
“I never answer. Part of me feels really guilty, but the other part is still furious.”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You didn’t do anything but finally do what’s best for you (and eventually hopefully for her cos it sounds like she’s finally getting help she desperately needed, and it is definitely not your fault she hurt herself.) Her continued contact with you it sounds like just increased her issues, she definitely shouldn’t have been in a relationship until she got some help and you have EVERY right to be angry that she messed with your future relationships.”
“Mental illness is the reason for her behaviour but it is not an excuse for it, and she treated you horribly.”
“I will shout this from the rooftops every day, if needs be: You are NOT responsible for the mental health of others.”
“I had an ex who threatened to kill herself every time I left her, trapping me. This happened three times until she cheated on me and dumped me.”
“Some people are just twisted and need serious help that a partner simply cannot give, and your ex is an extreme example of this.”
“I’m also sorry for your lost love. It’s such a shame that happened, but I’d maybe set up new social media and email accounts, change numbers, and start over if viable because she clearly has some way of accessing your accounts.”
“I’d also get a new phone, if you haven’t already, as she may well have installed some kind of screen mirroring app on your phone, which may be how she got the details of that lady to harass her.”
