Chip Chick
“Just as clearly, it does not sound like you are intending any malice here, but it sounds like you have deep-seated unresolved issues, and your husband, if he is not at the root of them, has grown upset or angry that your chosen way to cope over years appears to explicitly be without him. Please, both of you get some help looking at those issues.”
“You cannot spend literally half of a two-year period hiding in a cottage he purchased neglecting your relationship and expect there not to be repercussions.”
“Dude cared about you enough to buy a cabin you loved before you were married and you use it to leave him single for half the year.”
“My wife would have returned to divorce papers after the first time she did that. This guy has allowed it for multiple years.”
“Your spending all of your time there (so you are not with your husband). You are neglecting your husband.”
“Also, you did not mention WHY your husband is selling. Is it possible that he needs the money? In financial distress? Or is it he wants to sell it so his wife will return to him?”
“Totally get the attachment to the cottage. My parents sold our cottage out from under me last year and I’m still devastated.”
“They told me it would be their retirement home and I would get it one day and now that is gone forever and I can get never get it back.”
