Chip Chick
“Well, he shouldn’t expect those friendships to end just because they stop dating and why can’t friends come over for the holidays.”
“It’ll cost you one holiday, but I’m sure when confronted with a multitude of his “once in a lifetime” relationships, he might start to comprehend his inconsiderate habit of bringing these randoms to family get together.”
“He does not exactly sound like someone I would want to have around my children. A good role model he is not.”
“I have to admit that if I met the new girl I might ask her if she is the latest member of the girlfriend of the month club? I would start betting pools every time he gets a new GF. It could become a new family tradition. Yes, I would be that petty.”
“I can’t even imagine how his children deal with the revolving door of women he shoved at them. How on earth will they ever learn what a healthy relationship is?”
“I would tell the BIL that if he can actually date one woman for, let’s say, 2 years then you might be willing to meet her. If he refuses to come to your house at Christmas without the latest GF I wouldn’t call it a big loss.”
“Totally reasonable to not want random women that you’ve never met, at your family holidays, especially since they’re being held AT YOUR HOUSE.”
“And yes it’s his life, but if he& girlfriend are at your house/around your family, it impacts you and your kids.”
“For example, are you kids expected to address every woman as “Aunt so and so”? That’s confusing lol. He can do what he wants, but these are your boundaries and that’s your right.”
