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She didn’t want to have to handle this, because she didn’t want to have to speak to Joe at all after their breakup.
“Fast forward to now, and I’m doing pretty well; my life has had MUCH less conflict and drama, and I’m happily engaged to someone completely different. Life is good,” she said.
“And, I haven’t seen or heard from Joe or anyone close to him…. until today. Today, I received a FB message from Jessica, whom I had never met.”
“She introduced herself as Joe’s wife, mentioning how she was probably the “second to last person [I’d] want to hear from,” but that she a request.”
“She explained that it had been difficult for Ned and Susan to lose their family gold, and that Ned had expressed a desire to get a ring for Susan, as they had sold theirs early on in their marriage.”
Jessica then asked in the message if she could have her old engagement ring; just the band part to return to Ned.
Jessica maintained that Susan and Ned didn’t know she was sending this message, and there was no pressure to reply to her, though she did offer to pay for having the diamond removed from the ring, as well as shipping costs to send the band to her.
She was floored to be reading this message from Jessica, and she has no idea what to do.
Should she reach out to her friend and ask if they still have her engagement ring? She could, but she much prefers telling Jessica she doesn’t have the ring, and she’s also thinking of blocking her from being able to contact her.
How would you handle this?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
