Chip Chick
Well, her dad was only visiting her for 2 nights in a row, and her roommate’s mom is coming for an entire week.
“She told me that having my dad stay and having her mom stay is completely different because it’s a female and not a male,” she said.
“I got really upset with her statement. My dad has always been so nice and welcoming to her. He and I will meet halfway for dinner once a month, and my roommate has gone with us on several occasions.”
Her roommate never was honest with her by saying her dad being male was the issue with him staying at their apartment.
Additionally, she and her roommate both have invited male guests to stay at their place before, so she finds her roommate’s reason confusing.
“I got really upset with my roommate and told her that I didn’t want her mom to stay at our apartment and she needed to stay at the hotel like my dad had to do,” she continued.
“My roommate is now mad at me, but I feel like I’m justified in being upset at the double standard.”
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“…You and your roommate need to work on your communication and establish rules for guests that you both need to follow.”
“If she is uncomfortable having men stay over (which likely has nothing to do with your dad as an individual), that’s valid, but she should have told you that initially and you two could have discussed it.”
“But she has now drawn a “no guests” line in the sand and has to stick with it.”
