She Feels That She Tricked Her Boyfriend Into Expecting Her To Be Thin
A 36-year-old woman has struggled with her weight her whole life. At her heaviest, she’s been 275 pounds, and at her lightest, she was 150 pounds. When she got to 150 pounds, she started dating a guy 2 years older than her.
What her boyfriend didn’t know was that it was wearing her out staying at 150 pounds. She refused to eat any carbs and she spent 3 hours in the gym every single day.
She didn’t have a healthy relationship with food at all when she was her lightest, and it was a lot to keep it all up.
“I hid pictures of me at my heaviest and he knew I was not in a great place mentally with food but thought it was more social pressure to be rail-thin,” she explained.
“I really was able to lose the obsessive behaviors and went to 180lbs. I was not happy with the weight gain however but did maintain it for two years.”
As the years went on, she suffered a couple of events that really did impact her negatively, and she turned to food to deal with it all.
She’s back up to the heaviest weight she’s ever been, and she has sought out therapy to help her get to the bottom of her bad relationship with food.
She’s looking at everything a lot more clearly now. One of her friends recently made a comment about her weight, which left her believing that she tricked her boyfriend into expecting her to be thin.
She returned home in tears and apologized to her boyfriend for him having started dating her when she was skinny, only to have her currently be a lot heavier.
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“He says he loves me, I’m gorgeous and yeah, a lot bigger than when we meet, but aside from health concerns, was attracted to me same as always,” she said.
“I just feel like an actual hag whose magic potion wore off and worry he said that because he’s kind, not because it’s the truth.”
“I just don’t know besides actions towards losing and keeping off the weight what else to do. I know people change in relationships over time, mine is just absolutely evident to everyone around us.”
After doing a bit of reflecting, she added that she’s being fatphobic and that she’s projecting things onto her boyfriend when he has never once brought up her weight or said anything nasty about anyone’s appearance.
Don’t you think that if her boyfriend really was only into her for her appearance, he would have said something by now to indicate that?
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