Her Coffee Date With A Guy Turned Into A Disaster, And When She Tried To Tell Him That She Wasn’t Interested In Him, He Tried To Embarrass Her
What may have initially started out as a cute coffee date for TikTok creator @sadiebass16 turned a corner when her date decided to humiliate her instead.
She went out for coffee with someone cute that she met at a club she began. And things were going well and seemed normal at first.
“So we decide to meet in this coffee shop,” she said. “We get in there, he buys me a mocha.”
As time went on, she slowly began to question her choice to come on the date. The entire time that they spent together was taken up by conversations about himself.
“I was kind of feeling him, you know,” she added. “Afterwards, we’re like walking, and I’m thinking, oh, he’s going to say let’s go for a drink, or dinner or like, you know, let’s step this up.”
Instead, he decided to just wander around outside in the middle of a freezing cold January day and not find somewhere else to go.
“He’s like, ‘I just love chatting to you, like let’s sit on a bench,” she explained. To this, of course, she said she’d rather not sit outside because it was too cold.
Thinking that she had found a way to get this to move onto dinner or onto something more than just coffee, it was even more shocking when the warm indoor place that he chose to bring her to was Mcdonald’s.
TikTok; pictured above is @sadiebass16 in her video
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“I’m like, surely he’s not going to walk me into Mcdonald’s,” she said. “I was just like, this isn’t going to happen. Nothing wrong with Mcdonald’s; I absolutely love it. For a first date, it kind of doesn’t scream I respect you and value you.”
But they did go into Mcdonald’s, and given that she was dressed for a first date, she felt extremely overdressed for someone eating in a Mcdonald’s. “I’m like, ‘look, I think I’m too dressed up for McDonald’s,'” she continued. “I was like, ‘look, I’m just not feeling this,’ so I go home after.”
But her interaction with her date gets worse after she leaves, as if it wasn’t already cringe-worthy enough. She decides that she doesn’t want to see him anymore and politely breaks it off with him over text. He is not having this at all.
“He did not handle rejection well,” she stated. “He was like, ‘listen, yeah, I thought I’d take you out, spoil you.” She outright laughed at this in her video and couldn’t believe that someone would say that after one date.
“I was like, ‘look, I just don’t want to date anyone at the moment,” she mentioned. But in not handling rejection well, he moves to humiliation by telling her that she was an idiot for thinking that their coffee date was a real date.
“He goes, ‘what? you thought that was a date?'” she said. “He was like, ‘oh my god, that’s not a date, we’re literally just friends’ trying to like gaslight me or embarrass me.” While it may have been an uncomfortable situation at the time, she surely dodged a bullet there with a guy who can’t admit he’s wrong and instead turns to gaslighting and blaming to solve his problems.
You can watch her first video here and her second one here.
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