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He also saw that if they had talked about spending, say, $1,000 on something, his wife took out $1,500 to spend from their joint account. He kept reading and came across a few things he thought they had financed, yet his wife used their joint money to pay those things off.
“Then she says there is nothing left in the joint account, and she is actually owed a little bit because she had to pay some of the wedding out of her personal account,” he said.
“I thought there would be a lot taken out, but not all; I also don’t think she has been putting in as much in as she says she has.”
He’s not super upset that his wife drained their bank account; he’s honestly more upset that she kept this information from him and went against things they had previously agreed on. He thinks he needs to be able to access that account so he can monitor what his wife spends in the future and make sure she sticks to what they agree on.
“But a small part of me is really annoyed that she went behind my back to spend money, and it feels like she tried to hide it from me, etc., and now not sure whether I can trust her in our marriage,” he continued.
If you were in his situation, would you also feel that your spouse broke your trust too?
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