She’s Spent Over 3 Years Being A Mistress To A Married Man Who Is 20 Years Older Than Her, And She’s Not Sure How To Begin To End Things So She Can Finally Be Someone’s First Choice
A woman who is approaching the end of her 30s has spent over 3 years being a mistress to a married man who is 20 years older than her.
They began their relationship as a standard sugar daddy kind of arrangement, and she is completely in love with him at this point.
She suspects that he has feelings for her as well, although she admits he has never revealed that to her as the years have gone on.
Being with this guy does make her incredibly happy, and he does take quite good care of her; however, she’s thinking it might be time to end things so she can finally be someone’s first choice instead of second.
“He is extremely jealous; I feel like I’m wasting the best years of my life with him, although I truly love him,” she explained/
“We talked about him never leaving his wife from the very beginning, and I completely understand that, and I wouldn’t want him to leave her because I don’t think I could be able to handle him on a daily basis.”
“He’s a businessman, very strict but a very nice person. He doesn’t tell me anything corny, never says he loves me or how beautiful I am, only when I ask him. He does say he misses me every once in a while. I share my location with him all the time; he doesn’t, of course.”
She knows basically every single detail about his life, from where he works, to his home address, to who his coworkers are and everything in between.
She knows that he puts a lot of trust in her to have shared so many details of his life with her, as he’s exceptionally private with other people.
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Although she’s really just his mistress, he gets upset if she goes out on a weekend or if she decides to go somewhere and stay out pretty late.
He’s an envious kind of guy, and they frequently get into fights over text if she does try to live her life and do her own thing.
She spends about 4 times each week with him, and he will only let her know when he’s coming to her place half an hour before he shows up.
“He stays for a couple of hours or more, we drink together most of the time, we talk, we have a good time, and then we end up in bed,” she said.
“He then goes home, sometimes texts me songs, and that’s how he’s told me his feelings before, with songs lyrics. I am now feeling like perhaps I am wasting my time.”
“There are a few other men wanting to be with me for something serious. I have the opportunity to be THE WIFE and not “the other one”…I don’t know what to do. He doesn’t want to stop seeing me, and I have no idea how I would end this relationship.”
How do you think she can finally break things off with him?
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