He Got Upset With His Wife For Hanging Out With Their Maid And Having An Inappropriate Relationship With Her
A guy has been married to his wife for the last 3 years. He’s 36-years-old, and his wife is 5 years younger than he is.
Earlier this year, he and his wife moved into a new house that was much larger than their old house, and then his wife wound up getting pregnant.
When his wife hit her third month of pregnancy, he decided that he would hire a maid to help them around the house with all of their chores.
“I was raised with some maids my parents hired, so I thought why not do the same?” he explained.
“My wife was very chatty with her since day one, and insisted in helping the maid to clean. I told her not to help her because I hired her to do a job, and she should not interfere, but she keeps doing it.”
“Sometimes I find both just talking drinking coffee, or doing whatever, and I tell the maid to go back to work, but my wife tried to make her stay. They even go to another places together, like malls or cafés outside their work hours.”
He let his wife know that he did not like that she was hanging out with their maid, and he also told her that he felt the relationship that she had with their maid was inappropriate.
He feels that their maid is meant to just be their employee and not their friend at all.
His wife got extremely upset after he said this, and she and their maid ended up not speaking to one another for a couple of days.
Eventually, his wife let him know that she fired their maid so that they can go back to being friends and not having to worry about having a working kind of relationship.
“I blew up at her, because she had no authority to fire her since I hired her, and she was crossing a line,” he said.
“I tried to call the maid to rehire her, but she declined my offer since she already found another house to clean.”
“I told my wife to get her shit together, and that we are not supposed to “make friends” with employees, she told me to that I can’t control her friendships and that I created this problem.”
Since then, his wife has been giving him the cold shoulder and not saying a word to him. He’s left wondering if it was wrong of him to tell his wife that her relationship with their maid was not alright.
Do you think he should have allowed his wife to be friends with their maid?
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