His Girlfriend Asked Him To Put Their Triplet Daughters Up For Adoption And Then She Admitted That She Doesn’t Like Being A Mom At All Before Cheating On Him Too
A 25-year-old guy began dating his girlfriend 10 years ago when they both were 15-years-old. When they hit 21, they decided to have a baby, as they dreamed about starting a family of their own and getting to see the world with their future kids.
They were extremely surprised to find out that when they did get pregnant, they didn’t have 1 baby on the way; they had 3.
That’s right, they got pregnant with triplet daughters. After they welcomed their little girls into the world, things were really hard on them, but their families stepped in to help them in every way.
With such a wonderful support system behind them, he and his girlfriend really seemed to be thriving in their new roles as parents.
“I’m super in love with my daughters, every day, I’m still shocked that they’re actually here living in this world,” he explained.
“My life has become better, I’ve become a better person, and every day I’m always learning how to continue being the best dad I can be to this family. Playing with them, making them laugh and smile – it’s those little things that really make my heart grow; it’s beautiful.”
As time went on, he and his girlfriend did pause to consider if they were turning out to be decent parents, and he always thought they were.
He and his girlfriend had excellent jobs, and they were able to provide their daughters with everything.
He also made an effort to take his girlfriend out on a date once a week because he thought she was a wonderful mom who deserved to have a nice night out.
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Their daughters are now 4-years-old, and although he thought that everything was smooth sailing with their family, his girlfriend has not been feeling the same way.
“My girlfriend sat me down and admitted to looking into putting our children into adoption,” he explained.
“I didn’t expect this, so I admit, I reacted pretty negatively to this. She told me her reason for this was because she wasn’t enjoying being a mother anymore.”
“She believes that if we give our children away, she and I can go back to enjoying life and being happy. I’m already happy! I have a family, a great home, and a fun job. I told her this; that our children are my love and top priority.”
“She didn’t like this at all and felt I was “choosing” our children and ignoring our happiness as a couple. I didn’t even have an opportunity to speak because she got up and walked out.”
His girlfriend’s confession came 2 weeks ago, and everything only got worse from there. Several days ago, his girlfriend questioned him about still not wanting to put their daughters up for adoption.
He let his girlfriend know that he did still feel the same way; he was not interested in giving the girls up for someone else to raise.
Well, his girlfriend lost it, and then she admitted to him that she had cheated on him with another teacher she works with, as this guy is far more free-spirited than he is.
His girlfriend then revealed that she has been seeing this other go for some time and wants to leave him for this other guy.
“She loves the feeling of being with someone with no “restrictions” and someone that could do whatever they wanted without worrying about kids,” he said.
“I panicked; I’ll be honest when I say I didn’t take this too well. I was upset. Told her how could she even think about sleeping with another man when we have children together, a home, and responsibilities. She doesn’t want any of that, her reasoning is that she wants to be free again.”
“She also said she’s been slowly disliking our daughters, even blaming me for it. Our daughters are incredibly attached to me (they’ve been called daddy’s girls), so my girlfriend says she finds that offensive and that she doesn’t feel appreciated. “I hate having to chase them around,” “I hate having to shower them,” “they’re so annoying,” and “they talk too much!” – these are a few things she said, and there’s MUCH more.”
Sadly, one of their little girls was standing right there as his girlfriend went on this tirade about not liking them anymore.
Then, their daughter, who overheard this exchange, began yelling and crying out in an attempt to defend him.
That just made his girlfriend snap, and she told their daughter to shut up. He then picked up their little girl, grabbed the rest of their children, and he left to go to his sister’s house.
Several hours after that, he spoke to his girlfriend on the phone, and their relationship was over. His girlfriend said to him over the phone that she didn’t need him or their children to be happy in her own life.
He’s left reeling over the fact that his girlfriend could do such a thing and ruin their beautiful life that they had together.
In the last few days, he’s been able to calm down, though he’s left heartbroken. As for his girlfriend, he knows that she’s been spending all of her newfound free time with the guy she cheated on him with.
“You know what’s horrible? The daughter my ex-girlfriend yelled at; she’s been very sad lately and not her usual goofy self,” he continued.
“She’s not letting me go; she’s just hugging me and isn’t letting anyone touch her. Even my own sisters (who all my daughters love so much), my daughter just nods her head no; she has a super tight grip on me. That just hurts me so much, but I’m showing her so much love because even I know she’s definitely just as hurt as I am.”
Although his entire family has said he can keep living with them, he wishes he could go back to the place he shared with his now ex-girlfriend, as that is truly home to his children.
If he doesn’t try to figure out a way to ask his ex to leave that house, he can just save up a little more money and get a different apartment.
While he’s thinking through his housing options, he can’t help but also wonder about where he should go from here.
“I still love my ex-girlfriend (which is horrible to admit), but I’ll be an idiot to go back with her, especially after her comments about our daughters,” he concluded.
Do you think his ex deserves another chance from him?
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