His Girlfriend Is Demanding That He Fork Over Access To All Of His Bank Accounts, But He Said It’s Not Going To Happen, And She’s Going To Have To Sign A Prenup When The Time Comes
A 26-year-old guy has been dating his 24-year-old girlfriend for the last 6 years, and they are on track to get married sometime soon, though their plans had been shoved to the back burner because of the pandemic.
Not only was it not possible for them to hold a wedding with COVID going on, but they also had no ability to pay for wedding rings or a wedding.
The entire time that he has been with his girlfriend, they have lived pretty hand to mouth. His career was so new that he could only get entry-level positions that didn’t pay great at all, while his girlfriend is only getting a tiny stipend from her college.
“I ended up being laid off two months ago, so she has been supporting me by paying for food/necessities with her small stipend while my best friend has been paying my share of the rent and the entirety of our other bills,” he explained.
“Because of them, I was able to focus on finding a great job where I’m now making 6 figures. My best friend was elated, but GF, on the other hand, didn’t believe this was real. This changed as soon as she saw me filling out my employment forms.”
“Once she understood this was real, she began talking about all the different things she wants to blow my money on. Luxury handbags, jewelry, clothes, new phone, etc. I’m now expected to pay her share of the rent from now on.”
He didn’t let any of that bother him, and he just kept changing the topic of conversation every time she did bring this up.
Well, recently, his girlfriend has been discussing getting married again, as now they can afford it, and it also makes sense for tax purposes.
Although this was meant to be a private conversation just between them, all of their friends are currently involved in their relationship drama.
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“Her demands for marriage were that I give her access to all of my bank accounts,” he said. “Not just the joint account that I would contribute to (mainly for bills) or the spending account that I planned on funding so she could enjoy her life with a reasonable amount of expendable income.”
“She wanted all of them. My demands were that I would keep my main bank account private, as well as my crypto and stock accounts. I also asked for a prenup that would separate our marriage from my business. I will maintain full ownership and full liability for any debts in the event of a divorce.”
As soon as he let her know what he wanted in order to get married, she ran right upstairs to ask all of her friends about prenups before claiming that he only wanted a prenup so he could secretly cheat on her.
His girlfriend then told everyone that he has been the poor one in their relationship and all she did was support him.
This is not entirely true; his girlfriend’s mom and dad paid for everything for them for one year, and then his mom and dad stepped in to allow them to live in their home for 2 years without paying any rent.
“Everyone else who was here at the time gave their opinions and tried comforting GF,” he continued.
“They sympathized with her and tried their best to explain my point of view. A few friends are completely on my side, some say that we both have valid viewpoints, and some say that I am wrong because I made GF feel insecure.”
He’s left wondering if it’s a jerk move not to want to fork over all of his bank accounts to his girlfriend while also expecting her to sign a prenup.
Do you think what he is asking for is fair?
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