His Pregnant Wife Felt Sick And Asked Him To Skip A Bachelor Party, But He Freaked Out On Her, Went To The Party Anyway, And His Wife Ended Up In The Hospital
This twenty-nine-year-old man and his wife, who is twenty-five, are currently expecting their first child together. His wife is now six months along and, understandably, has been pretty cautious about anything concerning her unborn baby.
Honestly, though, he thinks his wife has been going a bit overboard.
“She wants our baby’s things to be perfect– from clothes to room,” he vented.
Still, he claims that he has been pushing all of his personal things aside to support his wife and do everything she asks of him.
For example, he recalled how his close friend who lives a few hours away was in an accident last month. So, he wanted to visit his friend, but his wife asked him not to.
Apparently, she was having some health complications at the time and did not want to risk staying home alone if something happened. He agreed and ended up not going.
“I also missed a couple of other events that required me to be away from home for a day or two during these past months,” he noted.
This past week, though, his wife asked him to stay at home again– and he totally freaked out.
For context, his best friend is about to get married next month. So, last weekend, he and his buddies threw his best friend a bachelor party.
Aleksandr – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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He claims that he told his wife about the party a week in advance and detailed how he would not be home for a day. And apparently, his wife was totally fine with it at the time.
But pregnancies are unpredictable, and it just so happened that the night before he was supposed to leave, his wife revealed she was not feeling well at all. His wife also asked if he would be able to skip the bachelor party– and he completely blew up on her.
In fact, he told his wife that she could not force him to do things “her way” all of the time. Then, he even said his wife needed to grow up and learn how to take care of herself– something he immediately regretted saying as soon as the words left his mouth.
“I know I crossed the line there. She is a very independent woman who never complains if she gets sick nor asks for help,” he admitted.
“But, since she got pregnant, she feels really anxious at the mildest signs of sickness.”
Anyway, his wife actually ended up being the one to apologize for being a burden and was clearly really hurt by his comments.
Regardless, though, they did not speak anymore that evening, and he still ended up leaving for the bachelor party the following morning.
Well, during the night of the party, he got an unexpected text from his wife. She actually wound up in the hospital and was admitted for observation so her doctors could ensure both she and the baby were healthy.
And apparently, his wife only told him so that way he did not bother driving home to be with her– since, obviously, she was not at home.
Still, he felt super guilty about everything that happened the day before and decided to drive to the hospital immediately. He planned to stay with her in the hospital the entire night, and he did.
But, the entire time he was there, his wife did not want to talk to him. And now, even a few days later, his wife has still been acting pretty distant and has declined to ask him for any help around their house.
His friends apparently do not understand why he left the bachelor party at all and are shockingly pretty mad at him about it. Obviously, though, he wanted to be with his wife– and feels really bad that he did not take her health concerns seriously in the first place.
So, he has been wondering if refusing to stay home with his wife when she asked instead of going to the bachelor party was a really jerky thing to do.
Do you think he should have ever blown up on his wife? Do you understand why he wanted to go to the bachelor party, or does that not matter when you have a pregnant partner? If you had been in his shoes, would you have stayed home?
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