She Has A Way For You To Figure Out If Your Man Is Sliding Into DMs

Do you ever wonder if he’s talking to other girls behind your back? What if he’s DM-ing other girls on social media?

Well, TikToker Char, @chaars_xo, has a new solution for finding out if you need to be worried about him cheating.

In a tutorial-style video, Char shows her followers what to do on their partner’s Instagram page if they want to find out who their partner has been messaging.

“Go on his Instagram, click settings, then security, then download data,” she wrote on the video while showing a screen recording of the steps in the background.

She shows how clicking “download data” will prompt you to enter an email where Instagram can send the link to download– this is the key to success when investigating him.

“Put in your email, and it’ll email you a copy of all of his messages,” she wrote.

But does this really work as a solution to the cheating problem? This is what one of her skeptical viewers asked too.

She posted a second step-by-step video showing that, yes, it does, in fact, work.

TikTok; pictured above is Char in her video

Putting in your email when prompted on Instagram will allow the app to send you an email, where you can finally download the information that you requested.

“Once you’ve clicked ‘download your data,’ it then requests a download,” she said. “So you go to your emails…and then click download information.”

From the point where you request the download on Instagram to the point where you finally get the information, there appear to be a lot of verification steps to ensure that you really want to download this information.

The email is one of them, but after the email, you must once again click to download on Safari.

“Then it takes you to Safari,” Char said. “Then click ‘download information’ again, click ‘download,’ and this will start to download the ZIP file onto your phone.”

Char pointed out that sometimes there is so much information to receive that the download could take a long time.

But this doesn’t mean that the download is not working. Although be warned, the download comes with a lot of folders: folders within folders.

“So once it’s done, click on the ZIP file,” she said. “It opens up files on your phone.”

The download to your phone will bring up the main folder where all of the different message conversations are stored.

“Click on the folder, scroll down,” she said. “This is everything that you can see.”

Within the main folder, all of the data from the Instagram account is organized into smaller, labeled folders.

“If you go to ‘Messages,’ ‘Inbox,'” she said. “These are all the messages!”

Once you open the specific message file that you want to see, you are given access to an HTML file that resembles a PDF of the message conversation from Instagram.

But if you do decide to play the role of investigator, this download gives you access to much more information about their account than just their messages. You can see comments, followers, likes, and more.

So should you be suspicious of your partner, follow Char’s advice, and you might just get your answer.

You can watch her first video here and her second video here.

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