Her Boyfriend Acts More Like He’s Single Than With Her, And It’s Causing Her To Constantly Compare Him To Her Ex

This 21-year-old girl has been dating her 23-year-old boyfriend for 8 months, and a few days ago, she said she would hang out with her boyfriend at his house last night.
Since he’s still in college, he does live with his parents, and she lives about half an hour away from him if she drives or an hour away if she gets on the train.
But, when yesterday rolled around, and it was time for her to hang out with him, she didn’t feel up to it at all and had to call him to hype herself up to even get on the train.
The thing is, she doesn’t really enjoy going to her boyfriend’s house to spend time with him because he acts as if she’s not really with him.
“For example: when I arrive, he just goes and sits at his desk and continues doing what he was doing, and I am left there with nothing to do (after some cuddles, of course),” she explained.
“Also, when he wakes up, he just starts his day without thinking about me, goes downstairs without telling me anything and, eats his breakfast, goes for a run,… meanwhile, I am in his bed, not knowing where he is and not capable of starting my day.”
“So that’s the reason why I wasn’t very excited to go to his house, but after the call, I went to his house anyways because I missed him. Even though he has a car and it’s only a 30mins drive for him, he wasn’t feeling like coming to my house.”
After she made it to his house, they were intimate, but he didn’t really focus on her, so she just felt ridiculously clingy for the rest of the evening.
She kept trying to cuddle, but her boyfriend wasn’t interested and even asked her to give him space, so she did that.

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She woke up this morning and felt that her boyfriend was back to living his life like he was “single.” He got up, ate breakfast by himself, and then he went for a run, all without filling her in on his plans.
She thinks he just goes through the motions like he isn’t in a relationship with her and always makes himself the priority instead of her.
Then, her boyfriend returned from his run, and she asked him if they could just go back to her dorm room and hang out.
She just didn’t feel welcome or “at home” at her boyfriend’s place, and going back to her dorm room would make her feel like she could actually get her day started the right way.
Her boyfriend said yes to going with her, but then he stopped to check his calendar and realized he had already made plans with his friend for later tonight.
“He always forgets things and plans things with me without knowing for sure that he is available,” she said.
She couldn’t help but be upset that he was doing this all over again, and her boyfriend could tell she wasn’t happy.
He asked her if she was alright, and she just replied that she wanted him to drive her to her dorm room and drop her off.
Throughout the car ride to her dorm room, she didn’t say a single thing because she was so angry with him.
Her boyfriend kept pressing her to speak to him about what was wrong, but she refused. She wanted to wait until they were back at her dorm room before saying anything.
When they got to her dorm room, her boyfriend pulled up to the curb and waited for her to get out. She grabbed her stuff before looking at him briefly and saying goodbye.
“I saw him drive away and thought that maybe he was going to park the car and return to me,” she continued.
“I called him 5 times, but he didn’t pick up. Turns out he forgot his phone at home, and he texted me when he was home. So he just left and went home.”
She turned her notifications off so she wouldn’t know if her boyfriend kept texting her and decided to think about everything.
“I feel like he has the mindset of a person that’s single,” she concluded. “My ex-boyfriend was the complete opposite of this, and I think about it a lot.”
Do you think it sounds like maybe they’re just not meant to be?
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