He then questioned his wife if she had cheated on him while they were together, and she said she hadn’t.
That made him feel good, as he had never once cheated on her, and so they got back to fixing things and did go ahead and followed through with marriage as well.
“A few months ago, it ends up accidentally coming out that she had started an emotional affair with a coworker the month prior to leaving me, and that she had left me for him….the reason for our breakup,” he said.
“After a few months, she decided she wanted to be with me still and came back. However, this didn’t get mentioned AT ALL. In a recent conversation about this situation, I asked why she lied when I asked if she had cheated in the relationship. She said that she thought I just meant “physically,” so didn’t mention it. She has apologized for it numerous times now that it has come out and says it will never happen again.”
“Now, I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage and for fighting for the marriage relationship. But I’m struggling here because I feel lied to. Though, as far as I know, she has been faithful since our wedding day, it feels like the entire marriage is a sham because I never got the whole story. Does anyone have any experience in this situation? I feel like her infidelity prior to our marriage sort of stains the whole process. Any advice on how you all would handle this?”
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