She kept telling herself that if she was more gorgeous, or in better shape, or more intelligent, he would have really fallen for her instead of ending things.
“We’ve been texting here and there to check in every now and then, but I recently found out he has a new girlfriend,” she said.
“It didn’t make me sad because I still want to be with him, because I accepted that it “wasn’t meant to be,” but it just made me feel really bad about myself. I can’t help but compare myself to this new girl, and I feel so ugly and gross.”
“I’ve just never had luck with men, and I’m starting to think it’s more because I’m just unlovable and ugly and have a bad personality rather than the men I’ve met being horrible people.”
She also is upset because she isn’t ready to begin dating again. She believes he used her, and she can’t believe he found someone new so quickly, even though they were never in a committed relationship.
Do you think she should stop being friends with him even though she doesn’t want to?
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