Her Fiancé Wants To Bring His Daughter Along When They Go On Their Honeymoon, But She Isn’t Ok With This At All

rh2010 - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
rh2010 - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

In a year, this 31-year-old woman will be getting married to her 35-year-old fiancé. Pretty recently, they have been talking about how they should spend their honeymoon, which they won’t be going alone on.

She’s currently pregnant and due with their baby this April, which means they definitely will be taking their baby along on their honeymoon.

She and her fiancé don’t want to have to burden any of their family members with having to babysit for a week or longer, and they also are worried about being away from their baby for an extended amount of time.

While this is the first baby that she will be having, her fiancé already has a 9-year-old daughter from a prior relationship.

Her fiancé’s daughter does live with her mom for the most part, but she does spend a weekend with them almost every 2 weeks.

She does get along well with her fiancé’s daughter, and she thinks she’s a kind kid, though pretty “cheeky.”

Regardless of not totally adoring his daughter, she really goes out of her way to make sure that her fiancé’s daughter feels at home when she spends time with them.

“Honestly, though, I have no major bond with her; I don’t feel any real love for her, no matter how much I try,” she explained.

“That’s just how I feel. But I am always kind/considerate towards her and would never be mean or nasty to her.”

rh2010 – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

Occasionally, her fiancé’s daughter bothers her and gets on her nerves, and she has to admit that she’s excited to pack her up and send her back to her mom’s on Sunday nights.

So, her fiancé expects her to agree to letting his daughter come with them on their honeymoon, as he is afraid she will feel bad if they take the baby and not her.

While she can see her fiancé’s side of this situation, she has zero interest in letting his daughter come along too.

“I know I won’t enjoy the honeymoon half as much if she’s there,” she said. “She’s not my daughter, and I just don’t feel fully comfortable when she’s around.”

“I wouldn’t be able to relax in the same way. We’ve had an argument about it now, and he can’t understand where I am coming from.”

“He thinks that bringing the baby and bringing his daughter is the same thing and doesn’t understand why I don’t want her to come.”

She’s left wondering if it’s mean of her not to want to let her fiancé’s daughter come on their honeymoon so she can have a nice time.

What do you think?

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