Her Husband Met A Nurse That He Claims He Wants To Be Friends With, But She Suspects There’s More Going On Here, As He’s Been Looking Her Up On Social Media A Lot
This 25-year-old woman has a husband who is 27, and a few months ago, her husband’s sister and niece landed in the hospital after suffering from a house fire.
Her husband’s family was hospitalized for more than 2 whole weeks, and luckily they are alright now.
However, she never managed to make it over to the hospital to visit her husband’s family because of work and caring for their son.
While her husband was visiting his family, though, he ended up hitting it off with one of the nurses who was caring for his niece.
This nurse was very nice and shared some of the same interests that her husband does, but that’s all she really knew about this nurse.
Then, as the day approached when her husband’s family was about to leave the hospital, she called him up one day to ask how they were doing, as her husband was at the hospital still.
Her husband chatted with her about his family, and then their conversation turned to what they should make for dinner that night.
But then, out of nowhere, her husband blurted out that he feels as if he is not allowed to make any new female friends without feeling remorseful.
He then tried to blame her for that before saying he thought this nurse that he met would be a great friend.
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Her husband also claimed that if she met a guy and wanted to be friends with them, he would have no issue with that before concluding that he feels as if she does not trust him at all.
“I told him this was very all of the sudden and asked him where it was coming from,” she explained.
“I asked if he had met a nurse there. And he said yes, that’s an example of it. I don’t mind him having friends that are girls, I don’t. He has a bunch, all people who he’s known since like 8th grade.”
Her husband also has a couple of female friends from work, and she has no problems with them either.
It’s not that she doesn’t want her husband hanging out with women; it’s that she is suspicious of how his friendship with this particular nurse he wants to stay in touch with began.
Specifically, she feels that there is zero reason for this nurse to be a part of her husband’s life outside of his time spent at the hospital.
“It’s not like I would be comfortable with just them hanging out or going out,” she said. “Besides having common interests, laughs, and all those things, I just don’t see how it would be needed for him.”
“He already has a ton of really close friends…I also know he would never be okay with me being like, “Hey, I met a guy, and we hit it off as “friends,” and we exchanged contacts”…like no…it’s just honestly hurtful. Maybe I’m out of pocket for thinking this way, but he’s married…to me.”
“Like, what am I not fulfilling in your life that you feel you need to find elsewhere? Or what’s so great about her that you HAVE TO AND WANT TO have her in your life so badly? I’m not saying she’s not cool, I’m sure she’s so sweet.”
So, her husband addressed wanting to be friends with this nurse 2 months back, and a day ago, she decided to snoop through her husband’s phone.
She admits it was wrong of her to do that, but she really wanted to see if he was talking to this nurse anyway.
Although she didn’t come across any conversations between her husband and this nurse, she did see that her husband was looking this nurse up on social media a lot.
“Not only is she completely his type, but she has a bunch of revealing photos on her page (which is good for her, not putting her down at all for that); my problem is that he had searched her multiple times,” she continued.
“Like he’s continually gone back to her page. She’s beautiful and much prettier and fitter than me. I’m also curious as to how he found her Instagram. Like, did he stalk her Facebook and go through about bunch of people to find her? Also, why did he need to do this? I get maybe wanting to see if she’s doing okay since their encounter..maybe that’s all it was. But IDK…I feel sad and hurt..and honestly like I’m not enough for the millionth time.”
“And now I’m wondering if he was flirting with her at the hospital and started feeling guilty because he knew what he was doing wasn’t cool, and then in return, made it about how I’m the problem because I won’t let him have “new girlfriends.”
Do you think she has every right to be suspicious?
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