She Called Out A Couple For Hooking Up In Her College Dorm Bathroom Because She Could Clearly Hear Everything
This 21-year-old girl is currently in college, and she has lived in the same dorm hall ever since she was a freshman.
But, even now that she is a senior, the rules have never changed. More specifically, the staff at her college have always stressed that getting close in the showers was not allowed.
“It’s uncomfortable for other residents who also have to use that bathroom,” the staff explained.
And thankfully, she has not had any issues throughout her last three years of school. Well, that was until her senior year, when college kids started to get a bit wild.
Apparently, she lives in a dorm room that shares a wall with the shower. So, whenever people play music in the bathroom or even just turn on the shower, she can clearly hear it.
Now, most of the time, this isn’t a problem. She actually enjoys the white noise since it’s relaxing, and she never had any issue with that.
But, for the past two or three weeks, certain students have started to use the shower as a meet-up for spicy time.
“And if there were a gender-neutral bathroom and it was private in the sense that you had your own room, I probably wouldn’t care as much,” she said.
Unfortunately, though, that’s just not the case. For instance, after she went into the bathroom to brush her teeth one day, she realized there was a guy in the shower with another girl.
Duche – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
At that point, she decided to just leave and use the different bathroom– which was located down the hall. But, upon getting back to her bedroom, she could clearly hear the guy and girl hooking up through the wall.
So, she was forced to just throw her headphones on and try not to think about it. However, even after that incident, the same thing just kept on happening. Another day, after she entered the bathroom, she saw two people enter the shower.
Now, she assumed they either did not realize she was there or didn’t think she knew there were two people going in the same shower.
Regardless, the pair of college students started hooking up, which pushed her to just get up and leave again. While she was still frustrated, though, she tried to let it go.
But, as of this past week, the shower issue has gotten too hard to ignore. After all, she was just trying to hang out in her dorm room– not listen to other people hooking up.
That’s why one more incident totally pushed her over the edge. Late one night, while she did some laundry, she realized that more people were getting spicy in the bathroom right next to her dorm room.
So, she wound up venting to some friends about the incident, and they encouraged her to talk to her Resident Advisor (RA). At that point, she realized the RA– who just so happened to be her friend– was thankfully on duty.
Afterward, she explained the situation, and the RA wound up agreeing that the incidents were both inappropriate and uncomfortable.
Then, the RA just said they would contact the Resident Director (RD) to send out an email reminder to all of the residents of her dorm hall.
So, she thought that was the end of that. Well, that was until she finally finished her laundry at 2:00 a.m. and still heard people in the shower.
By that point, she had had enough and decided to speak up. More specifically, she decided to open the door to the shower and tell the students in the shower off.
“People can hear you, and this is a public bathroom for the people who live in this wing. It’s really uncomfortable to hear what’s going on,” she told them.
Then, she even put up a sign on the bathroom door that basically said the same thing at the suggestion of the RA. Thankfully, the students who had been in the shower stopped after she intervened. Then, she was finally able to get in bed without hearing any uncomfortable noises.
Ever since she told off the other students, though, she’s starting to question whether she was being unreasonable. After all, she understands what it’s like being a college student.
“But, at the same time…you can hear the noise most of the time– which is uncomfortable when you go to wash your hands or write a paper,” she vented.
Regardless, she’s now been left wondering if addressing the shower hook-up issue inside her college residence hall was the wrong thing to do.
Why do you think various couples have now opted to get it on in the dorm bathroom out of nowhere? Can you understand why that’s uncomfortable and annoying to listen to? Did she have a right to say something? What would you have done?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
If true crime defines your free time, this is for you: join Chip Chick’s True Crime Tribe
Everything You Need To Know About Growing Basil In Your Garden
Sign up for Chip Chick’s newsletter and get stories like this delivered to your inbox.
More About:Relationships
