He Divorced His Ex-Wife For Secretly Going On Dates With Other Guys, But Now She Wants To Get Back Together With Him
This 39-year-old man was previously with his ex-wife for eight years– four of which they were married.
After they tied the knot, they also had two children together– who are now 14 and 12-years-old.
But, about seven years ago, he and his ex got a divorce. So, they have been co-parenting ever since, each getting to see their children every other week.
Honestly, though, he admitted to still loving his wife. And he believes that the “sad truth” in their relationship was that she just could not stay away from any male attention she got.
Apparently, his wife has always been a very beautiful woman who gained male attention throughout her whole life.
“Men would always look when they walked by, and I used to think how lucky I was she was mine,” he recalled.
But eventually, he found out his ex-wife wasn’t just enjoying the attention; she was also entertaining other men on the side.
He even found texts on her phone on various occasions. Yet, he chose to let it go at the time because all of the flirtings had just been over the phone.
Later, however, he learned that his ex also allowed those men to secretly take her on dates or out to bars after she got off of work.
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Now, his ex swore that none of the interactions were ever physical. And he never unearthed any proof to prove otherwise. Nonetheless, he still does not know if she was telling the truth.
As for why his ex-wife cheated, she claimed to enjoy the compliments she got and liked knowing so many other guys paid attention to her. She revealed that it gave her some sort of “high.”
“That wasn’t my cup of tea, so I ended the marriage,” he said.
Following their divorce, his ex has since spent years in therapy. While there, she was reportedly diagnosed with both OCD and Histrionic Personality Disorder.
And since getting to the root of her mental health, his ex has claimed that she is doing really well now.
Plus, once he saw his ex at their last drop-off with the children, she revealed that while speaking with her therapist a year ago, she admitted to wanting to reconcile their marriage.
Apparently, his ex has not been on any dates since they split up or even flirted with anyone.
Instead, his ex-wife claimed her main goal was to fix their relationship because she really wanted to be a family again if he was willing to give it a second go.
And since he found out that his ex received a diagnosis explaining why she seeks attention and has been actively working on her behavior, he is now actually considering the possibility of mending their marriage.
At the same time, however, he really isn’t sure if he can truly trust his ex again.
“I want nothing more than my family back, but I don’t want a repeat of the first time,” he vented.
So now, he’s been left wondering whether he should give it a shot and try to reconcile his marriage with his ex-wife or not.
Does it sound like his wife has been getting the help she needs? Can people truly change? Would you be able to trust your ex after what happened?
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