His Fiancée Confessed To Exchanging Risqué Texts With A Coworker And Asked For An Open Relationship Just Three Months Before Their Wedding Day
When this 29-year-old guy first started dating his fiancée, who is 26, about three years ago, they had an open relationship.
But eventually, after a few months of dating, his fiancée asked him if they could be exclusive, and he agreed.
Since then, they have been living together for three years. They also got engaged, will be tying the knot in three months, and intend to have children afterward.
For the past couple of weeks, however, he noticed that his fiancée has begun to party more and be more active on social media platforms– like Instagram.
He also realized that his fiancée was spending extra time “getting prettier” before she headed off to work.
That all led up to a couple of days ago when his fiancée ultimately made a devastating confession. She revealed that she was attracted to a coworker and had actually been exchanging some “risqué” text messages with another man.
Now, his fiancée claimed to regret the texts and swore that nothing else happened between her and her coworker.
She also promised to stop talking to the other guy and argued she was drunk when it happened and regretted the whole thing.
Yet, just yesterday, his fiancée approached him again. And that time, she asked if he wanted to enter an open relationship again.
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“Yes, the next day after that confession. I’m definitely heartbroken,” he said.
He was honest with his fiancée about his belief that being in an open relationship did not align with their future plans.
He just does not feel comfortable switching back to an open relationship after spending three years exclusively with each other.
Plus, the fact that his fiancée asked to change their arrangement just three months before they were set to tie the knot left him feeling really shattered.
Once he expressed his feelings, his fiancée did apologize. She also claimed to think he would be fine with going back to an open relationship since he was originally the one who wanted that arrangement when they first met.
Obviously, though, he is not okay with going back to an open relationship. And his fiancée reportedly understood– saying that was fine and she was only suggesting an idea.
His fiancée also reassured him that she did not need their relationship to be open.
Ever since she asked, however, he has not been able to stop “connecting the dots.” In other words, he suspects his fiancée just wanted to be in an open relationship so she could be with her coworker without sacrificing their future plans together.
So, he has started to feel really jealous of his fiancée’s coworker– since he knows she had been talking to the guy a lot.
And while he doesn’t necessarily feel “bad” about the situation, he just senses their relationship is in trouble– which sucks after working on their partnership for so long.
“I’m feeling things that I’ve never felt with her– jealousy, fear, sadness, anger, and devastated,” he admitted.
“I was ready to give anything for her. Now, I don’t know how I feel about getting married.”
So, he is really struggling to understand what to do and isn’t sure if doubting his marriage is justified after what happened.
How would you feel if your fiancée proposed an open relationship just a few months before your wedding day? Do you think that’s a red flag, especially after the incident with his fiancée’s coworker? Would you move forward with the wedding? What should he do?
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