Her Boyfriend Was Accused Of Assaulting A Girl When She Started Dating Him, And She Chose To Believe His Side Of Things, But It’s Beginning To Bother Her

Alina Rosanova - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Alina Rosanova - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

This 21-year-old girl has been dating her 20-year-old boyfriend for more than one year, and right now, she’s currently considering if she wants to continue being in a relationship with him.

What’s really upsetting her is that back when she first began dating her boyfriend, he was accused of assaulting a girl, but he claimed that he was innocent, and she chose to believe his side of the story.

“My boyfriend was seeing this girl pretty much right before we went on our first date, which was early March 2022,” she explained.

“He slept with her between our first and second date (I didn’t know about this until months later). That night that he slept with her, he allegedly touched her…without her consent.”

Then, at the beginning of April, she and her boyfriend decided to make their relationship official and stopped seeing other people.

As soon as she did end up becoming official with her boyfriend, she then attended a play that her boyfriend was in, along with this girl that he had slept with.

At the play, her boyfriend got into a verbal altercation backstage with this girl, and when she asked him what it was all about, he claimed he couldn’t even remember.

Not long after that happened, this girl came out and said that her boyfriend had actually assaulted her.

Her boyfriend sat down with her to fill her in on his version, and he said that he invited this girl to sleep over at his house, and he had touched her leg.

Alina Rosanova – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

He promised that was as far as things went, and when he was accused of assaulting this girl, he did not take it well at all.

Her boyfriend had several friends cut him out of their lives, and he did grieve over it.

“When I’ve questioned him on it, he’s taken offense at my skepticism,” she said. “But it kills me that I never heard her side.”

“He told me that she was overdramatizing what happened. He told me she was jealous and emotionally abusive.”

“And I believed him, it’s been over a year. And now I can’t stop thinking about it. I never got her side of the story. I feel a tremendous amount of guilt. What do I do? Has anyone been in a similar situation?”

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