He Told His Sister It Was Not A Good Time To Have A Wedding And Asked Her To Postpone It Because Of His Wife’s Stillbirth
Just two months ago, this man’s wife sadly endured a stillbirth.
“To say it has been devastating would be an understatement,” he admitted. “I can’t even describe it.”
His wife is utterly heartbroken, and they have since started to visit a grief counselor. While he knows that his wife is strong, he also knows that the loss has destroyed both of them.
But his sister is engaged and will be tying the knot this summer. Simply hearing anything about celebrations or weddings has been extremely difficult, though.
His wife is reportedly really distraught, and with his sister’s wedding scheduled for December, it just feels too soon for them to celebrate following the tragedy.
That’s why he actually decided to tell his sister that it was not a good time to get married and celebrate a wedding.
“I asked her to be considerate of the situation and my wife’s feelings,” he revealed.
Then, he even asked his sister to reschedule the wedding for another time next year.
According to him, his sister got engaged right around the time they suffered the stillbirth. So, he claimed that hearing about the engagement was hard enough already.
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At the time, his sister was also okay with canceling her engagement party– despite everything already being paid for. On top of that, his sister even kept her wedding planning pretty quiet and secret.
But following his latest request, his sister has refused to oblige and does not want to move her wedding. After all, his sister already planned for a winter wedding, and she didn’t want that to occur in June or July.
Rather than understanding his sister’s wishes, though, they instead got into a massive argument over the event.
“This is killing me, but more importantly, it is upsetting and killing my wife,” he vented.
So now, he’s wondering whether asking his sister to “support” him and his wife by moving back her wedding was really the wrong thing to do.
Can you sympathize with him and his wife’s devastation over their loss? At the same time, was it reasonable to ask his sister to move her entire wedding because of it? Didn’t she already cancel her engagement party and keep her wedding planning a secret for him? How would you have reacted if you were his sister?
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