Her Husband Went On A Guys’ Trip, And Most Of His Friends Cheated On Their Wives, But He Doesn’t Want Her To Tell The Women The Truth
This woman’s husband recently went on a trip with a group of guys, most of whom are married with kids.
Apparently, her husband only knew three of the men before going on vacation. Then, he met the rest of the group– who were friends of a mutual friend– while away.
Anyway, they reportedly went to a location that is known for unsavory tourism and inappropriate activities.
“Had my husband not FaceTimed me while some of this stuff was happening, I don’t think I’d believe that he was innocent and didn’t participate,” she admitted.
While most of the guys were married, though, only her husband and one other man did not take up the offer of getting with other women.
Her husband also immediately told her what was going on because he did not want anything about the trip to come out later and for her to think he was guilty by association.
He also genuinely thought that she deserved to know what was happening on the vacation, and he didn’t want to risk their relationship.
But, her husband did give her one condition: she was not allowed to inform any of the other wives that their partners had cheated– because, if she did, then everyone would know that it was her husband who broke the “bro code.”
According to her husband, all of the other guys seemed extremely comfortable cheating on their wives. This made her husband believe it was not their first time being unfaithful.
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Plus, one of the guys she and her husband are very close with even participated. And she never imagined that their friend would do such a thing.
That’s why her husband wound up cutting his stay on the trip short because he simply did not want to hang around those guys anymore.
Since finding out the truth from her husband, she has felt extremely hurt and conflicted, too. She knows that she will frequently see the other guys’ partners at events and other gatherings, so she has no clue how not to tell them.
“I feel, as a woman, I would want to be informed,” she reasoned.
Yet, her husband has a different perspective. He claimed it was none of their business and also thought there was no way that the guys’ wives were clueless about the cheating.
Still, she just has no clue how to continue respecting the other men who went on the trip or continue being friends with them.
And if she acts coldly towards them or refuses to interact with them anymore, then they will know that something is wrong since she is usually very outgoing and bubbly.
“The only innocent people are my husband’s friend, who is single, and his one other friend who abstained and hung out with my husband,” she explained.
“However, it is upsetting that all of these men condoned and basically enabled each others’ behavior– my husband included.”
That’s why she has begun questioning whether her morals and values truly align with her husband.
She also realizes that the situation puts him in a very tough spot. So now, she’s been left wondering what to do and how to move forward.
Do you agree that you would want to know if your spouse cheated on you? At the same time, might she risk her own marriage since telling the truth would put her husband’s friendships in jeopardy? How do you suggest she handles this situation?
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