Her Sister Said She Was Bitter After She Told Off Her Boyfriend For Constantly Being At Their House, Even During Stressful Times
If you grew up with siblings, did one of them ever bring their boyfriend or girlfriend around all the time, to the point where it annoyed you?
One young woman recently fought with her teenage sister’s boyfriend because he’s constantly at their house, even during stressful times.
She’s 21, still living at home, and has three younger siblings. One of them is her 17-year-old sister, who always brings her boyfriend back home.
“He acts like he lives here,” she said.
“They’ve been dating for two years, so he’s gotten really comfortable with our family and our house. My little brother is sick right now, and it has been really stressful. When I’m not at school, I’m either at the hospital with my 14-year-old brother or at home watching my eight-year-old brother.”
With her brother being sick, all she wants to do is focus on her family, but her sister’s boyfriend feels more like an invasive presence than he does a family member.
She snapped at him the other morning when he unexpectedly showed up in their kitchen while she was trying to make food to bring her parents at the hospital.
He offered to help her, but she declined. Then, he proceeded to hang around the kitchen, making her feel pressured. When she asked him what he was up to, he said he wanted to make some food, so he was waiting.
“I told him that maybe he should go to his house and use his kitchen then,” she recalled.
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“He said he wasn’t trying to bother me. I said that he is bothering me, and I’m sick of him always being here invading our space. I can’t even relax in my own home the rare moments I get to myself because he’s always here.”
Then, her sister’s boyfriend said she was being unfair, especially because he was very worried about her brother as well and that it’s important for families to stay together. That’s when she snapped, telling him that he’s not a member of her family and that he needs to stop coming over a few days a week to give them space.
After her outburst, her sister’s boyfriend left, and her sister was furious. They got into a big fight, and her sister called her bitter. Her sister also said that since her boyfriend was her guest, she could have him over whenever she wanted.
She went to her dad to discuss everything that had gone down. Her dad wanted to find a way to make things work, so he made some rules. Her sister’s boyfriend can keep coming to the house daily, but he can’t arrive any earlier than 11:00 a.m. and must leave by 7:00 p.m.
Now, her sister’s boyfriend can’t enter the house himself and has to knock to be let in. Additionally, if he wants food, he must return to his own home to get some.
After her dad set these rules, she apologized to her sister’s boyfriend, and they hugged it out. However, her sister is even angrier with her now that these rules are in place.
Should she feel bad for what happened between her and her boyfriend’s sister, or is her anger valid?
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