His Fiancée Admitted That She Never Would Have Said Yes To Marrying Him If He Was Poor
This 28-year-old guy began an IT company right after he graduated from college, and after 2018, his company really took off.
That same year, he met his 27-year-old fiancée, and when he initially asked her to date him, she had no clue that he made a lot of money.
It was only after they spent some time together did his fiancée really see the “scale” of it all.
2 months ago, he proposed, and she said yes. Both of their families happen to be super close, and they even started teasing them about getting married just a couple of months into their relationship.
He says that his relationship with his fiancée is absolutely perfect. Although they do, on occasion, disagree, they never raise their voices or get super angry.
“I do everything I can to make sure she is happy, I buy her flowers, take her out on dates, vacations, and do stuff with her whenever I can,” he explained.
“She is a kind and funny person, she is always there for me when I am feeling down or burned out and has been my best friend for the past 4 years. I have to admit that I do work a lot, but I always try to learn about her day and how she is feeling when I get home. She has a teaching degree but stopped working about a year ago to focus on taking care of her dad, who has cancer. She was hinting at quitting for a while, so I offered to carry her expenses.”
“This is not a financial issue for me at all, and at the time, I did not really think about it because I thought it was a great way for her to spend some time with her dad before he passes. I assumed that she would go back to work sometime after that.”
Yesterday evening, he and his fiancée went out to dinner with a couple of her friends and their significant others.
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He skipped out on having drinks since he had to work today, but his fiancée did drink. Then, one of his fiancée’s friends joked that his fiancée had life figured out since she was marrying rich and could just relax for her whole life.
His fiancée joked back that you can just find a reason to stay at home and never go back to working. She also mentioned that if the guy has a problem, you can take half of their things and leave.
“I know she was probably just joking here, but that still obviously bothered me,” he said. “I confronted her about it on the way home, and she ended up admitting that while she does love me, she would not have married me if I did not have the financial security. I asked her if she would marry me if I earned what she does, and she said no.”
“We had a big fight about this morning, she is saying that I should not have confronted her while I was sober, and she was drunk. Also, she claims that there is nothing wrong with a woman choosing a man based on his salary, as she is only looking out for herself and her future children. She argued that guys tend to go for looks, and women accept that too.”
“I understand her point, but I was a little heartbroken. I would do absolutely anything for her, and I don’t care if she were poor or sick or whatever. The fact that her loyalty to me is based on the advantages of dating me rather than me as a person and partner makes me rethink if the is the one I should marry.”
His fiancée did say that she would sign a prenup a couple of months back, so he knows she could never just take half of his things like she joked about at dinner.
He still is super upset about his fiancée admitting that she never would have agreed to marry him if he was poor.
Do you think this is a good enough reason for him to call off the engagement?
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