These Are A Few Etiquette Mistakes You Want To Avoid Making As A Wedding Guest

Most wedding guests do their best to contribute to a drama-free and fun-filled environment on the couple’s wedding day. While there are some obvious things to avoid doing as a guest, there are some common mistakes that might seem small but are actually considered disrespectful to the bride and groom.
Here’s a list of don’ts when it comes to being a wedding guest!
Don’t Ask About Plus Ones
While you might be really wanting to bring your partner or a plus-one to a wedding, be mindful of what your invitation indicates. If there is nothing on there about a plus one, then it’s best to take that for what it is and respect the couple’s decision.
Avoid asking the couple if you can bring a plus one because it can put unwanted pressure on them and make them feel like they have to make an expectation just for you.
If you are allowed to bring a plus one, make sure that your guest knows the proper etiquette and follows the dress code so that the couple won’t regret allowing you to bring someone.
Don’t Overdo It On The Alcohol
Most wedding receptions have all different types of alcohol, and some may even offer an open bar. While it’s reasonable to have a few drinks, let loose, and have a fun time with your friends and family, it’s best not to drink too much.
Keep the amount of alcohol you have within your own limits to avoid embarrassing yourself or creating an uncomfortable environment for the other guests. Plus, it’s always important to be respectful of the couple, so don’t put them in a position where they feel like they have to babysit you.

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Don’t Wear White
This faux pa is infamous for a good reason! Even if you think the bride would be totally cool if you wore a white outfit, just pick a different one to be on the safe side.
A lot of people look at wearing white to a wedding as disrespectful to the bride and may think you’re full of yourself and are trying to one-up the bride on her special day. Luckily, all of that can be avoided by simply choosing to wear a different color for the day!
Don’t Ignore The Dress Code
Similarly, it’s important to know the dress code of the wedding you’re going to attend so that you can get some ideas about what you’re going to wear. Usually, dress codes will be listed on the invitation you receive, and if there’s any confusion between the different levels of attire, the internet will surely help!
If there’s still some confusion, or you’re stuck between a couple of outfit choices, don’t be afraid to ask someone in the wedding party questions about attire. It’s better to be sure that your outfit will respect the dress code than to show up realizing you got it wrong!
Don’t Be Late
This one goes without saying, but it’s super important to show up on time to a wedding ceremony. Of course, life happens, and sometimes we can’t help but show up late to things, even if they are important things. However, do your best to plan your day so that you will get there early to give yourself some wiggle room in case something doesn’t go according to plan.
If you do end up showing up late, either wait outside until the ceremony is over or quietly take a seat in the back of the room. Obviously, this all depends on the venue and your best judgment, but try not to cause a scene with your late arrival.
At the end of the day, if you’re invited to a wedding, it’s because the couple wants you to be there to help celebrate their special today. Chances are, little human errors of yours aren’t going to upset them or cause any large bouts of drama. However, out of respect for the couple, it’s important to try to be on your best behavior and avoid these wedding guest mistakes.
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