How To Navigate Including Junior Bridesmaids In Your Wedding Party

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When it comes to planning a wedding, every little detail counts. From the flowers to music to incorporating different traditions, each element can add its own unique touch to the celebration.

One fun tradition is the decision to include junior bridesmaids in your wedding party. You may have a younger sister who is like your best friend or nieces that you are extremely close with.

Whatever the case may be, including junior bridesmaids– who are typically between the ages of 8 and 14– can add a layer of youthful charm and family connection to your big day.

However, it’s important to realize that having tweens and young teens involved also comes with its own set of considerations.

Balancing the whimsy of childhood with the elegance of a wedding might seem challenging, but with the right approach, it can be a joyful and memorable experience for everyone involved. Let’s explore some practical tips on how to navigate having junior bridesmaids in the wedding party without breaking a sweat.

Embrace The Age Difference

While junior bridesmaids may act mature and look beautiful in their dresses, it’s important to remember that these bridal party members are not adults. So, when it comes to planning activities and laying out expectations, keep their age in mind.

A pre-wedding slumber party? That’s a totally fun, age-appropriate event that bridesmaids of all ages can be included in. A bachelorette night out on the town? Not so much.

Choose Appropriate Attire

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Finding the right balance between youthful innocence and wedding elegance can be a challenge.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to consult with the parents. The goal is to choose an outfit that makes the junior bridesmaids feel special without overshadowing the bride or adult bridesmaids.

If you are open to it, you can even include the junior bridesmaids in the decision– providing them with some options to vote on and choose from to help them feel more involved.

Get Them Involved (But Not Too Involved)

Just like how it takes a village to raise a child, planning a wedding is often impossible without the helping hands of loved ones.

But, while you may have some loftier expectations of your adult bridesmaids, your junior bridesmaids should not be expected to contribute in the same way.

Yes, including junior bridesmaids in pre-wedding activities can be a delightful experience for everyone. You could let them help with small tasks, like making invitations or assembling favors, for instance.

But be mindful not to overwhelm them. They’re there for fun and celebration, not to feel burdened by responsibilities. You also don’t want to risk any mishaps if commitments to responsibilities fall through.

Communicate Expectations

If you want to include junior bridesmaids in your wedding, clear communication will be crucial.

Make sure both the junior bridesmaids and their parents are on the same page regarding what’s expected of them on the big day.

A gentle reminder about behavior, schedule, and any special roles they’ll play can go a long way in ensuring confidence, comfort, and overall smooth sailing.

Embrace The Unexpected

Even with the best planning, keep in mind that kids will be kids. Unexpected giggles, fumbles, or even tears may occur.

It’s best to just embrace these moments with a smile and remember why you wanted to have junior bridesmaids by your side on your wedding day in the first place.

Plus, any hiccups often just become the most cherished (and funny) memories.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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