She’s Forcing Her Husband To Cancel His Credit Card Since Now That His Daughter Has A Hold of It, She’s Going To Keep Buying Whatever She Wants On His Dime
This woman is married to a man named Tom, and Tom has a daughter from a previous relationship that he was never close to.
But then, a decade ago, Tom reconnected with his daughter, and now his daughter is 35-years-old. Tom’s daughter lives on the opposite side of the country, and she has three children.
Since these are Tom’s only grandkids, he’s always overjoyed to be able to spend time with them.
To be honest, she has a major problem with Tom’s daughter because this girl is always trying to get Tom to pay for anything and everything.
She and Tom will pay for his daughter to go on vacation with them, they pay for her dinners and outings, and yet, his daughter always is trying to get them to buy her more and do more.
“A Gucci purse was the last thing she guilted my husband into buying her – since he never paid child support for the 20+ years that he wasn’t in her life, she feels like she deserves these things,” she explained.
“It seems like every time she’s on the phone with him, she says, “Oh, the grandkids miss you, when are you taking us to see you”? Or “I really need a vacation.” And he will send her money. He knows that I don’t like that kind of pandering, but I try to ignore it. He is guilted into sending cash regularly for one thing or another.”
Last weekend, Tom’s daughter and grandkids came to visit them, and Tom paid for their travel expenses.
She reminded Tom not to get roped into buying anything crazy for his daughter, you know, like another Gucci purse.
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Tom maintained that he had learned from his mistake and nothing like that would be happening on this visit. So, she and Tom took his daughter and grandkids to an amusement park, an arcade, and a bounce park.
They paid for all of their meals and all of their expenses for their outings. While they were spending time together, she was pretty shocked that Tom’s daughter did not ask them for a single thing.
On the final day of the trip, they were all out to lunch together when Tom’s daughter got a notification on her phone and stated that the headphones Tom bought for her son just got to their house.
She knows Tom does not have an account with Amazon, and she knew instantly that his daughter swindled him into purchasing $200 headphones for his grandson. Tom’s daughter then got his credit card information and entered it into her own Amazon account when she wasn’t looking.
She did her best to remain calm throughout the rest of lunch, but later on, she confronted Tom’s daughter and stated she had to take Tom’s credit card off her account.
She is aware that if Tom’s daughter holds onto his credit card information, she’s going to keep buying whatever she wants on Tom’s dime.
“I know my husband can do whatever he wants with his money, and he feels guilty for not knowing his daughter for the first 20+ years of her life, but [am I wrong] for making him cancel the credit card that he put into her Amazon account? Am I overstepping?”
“I just don’t believe that she erased it, and I’m not the kind of person to make her do it in front of me and cause a scene. But she would milk him dry if she had the chance, and he’s too much of a pushover to say no.”
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