He Started Crying When He Found Out That His Girlfriend Kissed And Cuddled With Another Guy, But Now She Wants To Still Continue Being Friends With This Guy Too
This 27-year-old guy has a girlfriend who is 34, and he says their relationship is really built on trust and honesty.
They have been dating for close to a year now, and last week, his girlfriend attended a huge music festival.
His girlfriend booked the trip alone since she bought her ticket back before they had even met. He didn’t have a problem with his girlfriend still going on the trip, but he did have an awful feeling as soon as she left.
He just chalked it up to feeling sad that he was all by himself, but it seems that his gut instinct was onto something.
“She had mentioned before our relationship having experimented with open relationships and having a tendency to easily fall in love, but also that it didn’t seem to work for her,” he explained.
“I am extremely monogamous and have set the boundaries early on that I would not be okay with any kind of romantic engagement with anyone else. We had agreed on it, and there seemed to be no issues on that front.”
Well, his girlfriend returned from her trip over the weekend, and the following morning, she mentioned that they needed to have a chat.
While they sat down to talk, his girlfriend revealed to him that she met a guy she found “interesting” and that she not only kissed him but cuddled with him too on the trip.
That information destroyed him, and he never thought his girlfriend would be capable of cheating on him.
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He had a hard time getting over his initial shock, but when it wore off, he could not stop sobbing.
“I am devastated and feel betrayed, to me, what she did was cheating,” he said. “She’s not denying it or trying to downplay it, BUT she wants to keep contact with this guy because she considers him “a friend.” This hurts me even more.”
“I feel like climbing the walls and wanting to scream my lungs out, but I’m just really weak and nauseous. She’s trying to take care of me…My whole life has been turned upside down. She’s saying she wants to continue trying to make our relationship work and that she loves me very much and doesn’t want to lose me.”
“I also don’t want to lose her, yet I feel like I will never be able to forgive what she did. Every time I see her or think of her or even just close my eyes, all I can see is her in another guy’s arms kissing. I’m…disgusted and broken, and I don’t know what to do.”
What advice do you have for him?
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