She’s Pretty Positive That Her Fiancé Is More Into Her Assets Than Her, And She’s Supposed To Marry Him In 6 Weeks
This 33-year-old woman is supposed to tie the knot with her 35-year-old fiancé in just 6 weeks. She is well-off, and she is expecting him to sign a prenup.
She says she has an incredibly stressful job and works more than 100 hours a week at times, and she does make 3.5 times more money than her fiancé does.
She has asked him to change their original prenup to exclude the hobby farm that her family owns so that it’s not considered part of their future assets after they get married.
So, the reason why she no longer wants the farm to be something he can touch one day is that it’s in her name.
She helped her parents buy the farm last year, and this was before her fiancé proposed to her. Her parents weren’t able to pay for the down payment and the mortgage, so she stepped in to help.
“Obviously, I do not want to be forced to sell it from under them in the event of a separation in order to equalize assets,” she explained.
“After I bought this up, my fiancé said he didn’t trust me and alleged I was trying to “hide money” out of common assets even though my parents had talked about this farm for YEARS and are actively maintaining it heading into retirement.”
“He requested for me to transfer the title entirely to my parents, which would trigger paying a lot of taxes for no reason since it’s for my family. He also balked at the idea that I would continue to pay for their mortgage until they sold their current home since my dad is near retirement and my mom was forced to retire early due to multiple health issues, they’re probably going to need some extra time to figure things out.”
She has been paying for the mortgage for a year now, and it’s easy for her to afford this. Aside from paying for the mortgage, she has been able to pay for her own mortgage, cover all of her bills, save money, and pay for her fiancé’s plane tickets as they are long-distance right now.
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She also has easily been able to afford to purchase presents, take her and her fiancé out for fancy dinners, and allow them the opportunity to do fun activities together.
She tried to tell her fiancé that if she continues paying the mortgage, it won’t impact the quality of their life at all. Somehow, her fiancé feels that she’s “taking” something from their future assets by paying the mortgage.
She believes her fiancé is nothing but a hypocrite because after they get married, he’s going to move into her home while allowing his current female roommate to keep living in his 4-bedroom house for way less than what rent goes for in his area. That’s not the only “red flag” she has seen between him and his roommate, and she’s beginning to suspect they’re more than just roommates, even though he denies there being any romance there.
“I was obviously disappointed and offended after all of this and asked to separate all our pre-marital assets because he seems so fixated on my higher income,” she said.
“Despite offering to perpetually pay for more of our future common expenses, he still was fixated on how he was losing out because I earn more and will have more potential income to invest and put towards my pre-marital assets (they would eventually go towards our future children anyway??).”
“We aren’t even married yet, and I get the sense that he already feels entitled to my hard-earned money, so I am planning on standing firm on this prenup.”
Do you think it sounds like he’s more interested in her assets than he is in her?
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