Her Ex-Husband’s Mistress Reached Out And Wants Her To Forgive Her Ex For Cheating Because He Still Feels Guilty And Is Refusing To Propose To The Mistress Because Of It

sakkmesterke - stock.adobe.com-  illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
sakkmesterke - stock.adobe.com- illustrative purposes only, not the actual person

After this woman and her husband had their second child, they began having some marital problems. Love and affection weren’t lacking in their relationship– at least, according to her husband.

“We still loved each other, and we were basically in a rough place,” she recalled.

However, her husband wound up meeting a new female coworker and seemingly developed some feelings for the woman. The coworker felt the same way, too.

Then, one day, her husband approached her and claimed to love her but still asked that they take a “break” for a few months. That way, they could work on their problems separately.

“I was heartbroken, but I agreed, thinking we were going to work on our marriage,” she explained.

Yet, not even one week later, she found out that her husband was hooking up with his coworker. This pushed her to file for divorce, and she has not seen her now ex-husband for three years.

Their divorce was finalized two years ago, and since then, her ex-husband has consistently tried to get in touch with her. But she refuses to open up his emails because she misses him, and she knows what the messages probably said.

“Empty worries and apologies. For me, he cheated, even if not everyone agrees because ‘we were on a break,'” she said.

More recently, though, she was shocked when her ex-husband’s girlfriend reached out to her– asking her to forgive her ex!

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Apparently, her ex-husband refuses to make their relationship official, propose, or start a family with the woman because he still feels guilty about what he did to her.

“He tells his girlfriend they don’t deserve happiness, and the woman thinks it’s all my fault,” she vented.

She didn’t even want to interact with his ex’s girlfriend, though, and told the woman not to contact her again. But, even after blocking the woman on Facebook, her ex’s girlfriend just created a new account and accused her of being vindictive and bitter.

So now, she’s been left wondering whether refusing to forgive her ex-husband so that he can get married to his mistress with a clear conscience is really the wrong thing to do.

Do you think this is her problem? Or should her ex-husband work through his guilt on his own? Did she do the right thing by trying to block her ex’s girlfriend? How would you have handled this situation?

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