She And Her Husband Are About To Get Divorced, And He’s Trying To Make Her Feel Bad For Making His Kids Homeless
Three years ago, this woman met her soon-to-be ex-husband. Their wedding was nearly one year ago.
Her husband has three kids from a previous relationship.
“He always had partial custody, but recently, his ex went to prison, and she isn’t getting out anytime soon. That switched us to full custody,” she said.
Even though this was a huge adjustment, she was okay with her husband’s children living with them full-time.
She enjoys being around his children, but her husband takes responsibility for most of the caregiving.
“He did 75% of the parenting. It just worked out for the best that way based on what the kids wanted and what I wanted,” she explained.
As an example, she said that her husband’s youngest daughter doesn’t like her to be the one to help her get ready for bed, so her husband is the one who is in charge of that.
“He started getting overwhelmed and stressed. He never really wanted to be a parent, to begin with. So, he wasn’t treating me that well,” she shared.
“He would lash out at me after having a bad day. We had a big blowout fight, and he left to stay with his brother and took the kids. I told him I’d move their stuff into a storage unit and I’d leave the key to it in a mailbox. He agreed.”
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She followed through with her plan, moving her husband’s and his children’s things out of her house, and she also changed her locks.
As she did this, she communicated with a lawyer, who agreed that this was acceptable for her to go forward with.
Her husband and his children weren’t able to stay at his brother’s house for long, though.
Apparently, her brother-in-law’s wife quickly grew irritated and fed up because her husband and his children made too much noise, were too chaotic, didn’t clean up after themselves, and messed up her own family’s daily routine. She didn’t want them to stay at their house any longer.
Understandably, this came as a shock to her husband. He hadn’t expected his brother to agree with his sister-in-law’s decision to make them leave.
He thought his brother would have been on his side and would have tried to convince her to change her mind.
Now, he and his children don’t have another option for housing. He reached out to her to ask if they could come back to her house, and she didn’t want to allow them back.
In her view, she doesn’t think she did anything wrong when she changed the locks and moved her husband and his children’s stuff into a storage unit because she and her husband will be divorcing soon.
She feels terrible that this situation is affecting his children, but they aren’t her responsibility. She believes that her soon-to-be ex-husband’s family should be the ones who should support him and his children during this time.
“He’s trying to guilt me, saying we both made mistakes and should put everything behind us,” she continued.
However, since her husband and his children have been gone, she’s discovered that she’s felt a sense of relief and happiness.
Finally, her house is clean, and she is free to cook whatever food she wants, not having to worry about whether his children will like it or not. She would rather not allow them to return to her house.
Do you think she’s right not to let her soon-to-be ex-husband and his children come back to her house?
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