Her Boyfriend Said She Needs To Gain Weight Because He Doesn’t Find Skinny Girls Attractive And He Doesn’t Even Want To Touch Her
This 20-year-old girl has a boyfriend the same age as her, and they have been together for nearly 3 years.
Throughout the course of their relationship, they both have undergone a lot of changes, especially from a physical standpoint.
They both are invested in their fitness, and her boyfriend enjoys building muscle while she likes to stay fit and toned.
She has always weighed about 160 to 170 while dating her boyfriend, and she was considered to be obese in that weight range, as she is only 5’1″.
She felt really insecure being so big, and back when she was in high school, she did have an eating disorder.
“Exactly 1 year ago, I began my weight loss journey, and I have lost around 54 lbs. and now I’m maintaining my current weight,” she explained.
“And as you might expect, my body changed drastically, but I do feel much much happier In my own skin now. I fit into clothes that I loved and finally gained some confidence back after years of struggling.”
Yesterday, she was talking with her boyfriend about what their future together could look like, and they are struggling with some things.
They were attempting to figure out solutions in order to build a better relationship, and they spent hours trying to work through everything.
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Eventually, they said goodnight to one another and went to bed. But then an hour later, her phone was blowing up, and it was her boyfriend.
“I go to see what’s wrong, and it’s him texting me about [how] he needs to get something off his chest and how It’s about how he needs me to gain weight because he finds skinny girls “severely unattractive,” she said.
“He doesn’t stop there he continues on and adds how he used to find me so attractive and would want to touch me and hold me all the time but how “it’s gone with the weight.” I text him that he’s being mean because this doesn’t add anything towards us fixing our relationship and how it made me sad that he basically woke me up to tell me he finds me unattractive.”
“He continues with how it will help fix our relationship, and he didn’t mean to upset me with that, but he just wanted to be honest and didn’t want to continue to lie to me. I asked him to name one thing he actually liked about me since he’s so vocal about everything he hated, and he goes to list some things, but I’m just way too hurt to even accept it.”
She ended the conversation by telling her boyfriend she needed to get to sleep and she also needed to think about a couple of things.
She’s left wondering what to even do. Hearing that her boyfriend thinks she needs to gain weight because skinny girls aren’t attractive to him makes her want to sob and yell.
Do you think she should dump him over this?
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