His Ex-Girlfriend Said She Would Like To Start Going On Dates With Him Again, But She Also Wants To See Other Guys And Keep Her Options Open
This 22-year-old guy and his 20-year-old ex-girlfriend have had a tumultuous past, as they have broken up and gotten back together several times.
Two weeks ago was the very last time that they split up, and even post-breakup, they have been getting into some ugly arguments with one another.
He figured this was finally the end of them, but yesterday evening, his ex-girlfriend reached back out to him, even though she had previously blocked him from contacting her.
He did apologize for the part he played in their demise, and he actually ended up begging her for one last chance to prove he’s worthy of her.
He then suggested they go slow, not rush, and see how it all plays out. She agreed to this and said they should meet up in person.
They did meet up, and she wound up sleeping over at his place that night. After he had dropped her off back home, he thought they were in a great place.
His ex-girlfriend also messaged him later on to say she would like to start going on some dates with him in an effort to rekindle their relationship.
She pointed out that things aren’t exactly the same between them anymore, and she’s worried she did lose the feelings she had for him.
“She said she couldn’t promise me things would end up working out,” he explained. “She also said she wants to keep her options open.”
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“Like she wants to see other guys as well. She said she doesn’t want to commit to me because she isn’t ready to be together again or with anyone for that matter. And if we were to still be exclusive, we’d still be dating without the title. She said if I’m not comfortable with it, she understands.”
“I’m conflicted. Part of me feels like I’m being played and treated like an option. But at the same time, I did [mess up badly], and I do need to prove myself. Maybe I should be glad that she’s even giving me a chance.”
“At the same time, I’m worried I’m being gaslit into accepting all the blame for why our relationship failed. It wasn’t all me, but she’s pinning it on me, and I’m the one who needs to prove myself. But it doesn’t seem like she’s doing the same thing for me. I don’t want to get hurt again. What do I do? Should I risk it and see what happens?”
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