She Got Accused Of Stalking A Guy On Their First Date Even Though They Had Never Met Before, And It Really Made Her Fear For Her Safety
If you didn’t think men were kind of delusional before, you will now! A couple of months ago, TikToker Ella (@ella_elbells) went on a date with a guy who accused her of stalking him even though they had never met before.
So, she had matched with a guy on a dating app, and they didn’t really chat with each other at all. However, he still asked her to get drinks with him.
She agreed since she loved to meet new people. They exchanged around five messages in total to set up the date. That was the extent of their communication, so she didn’t know a single thing about him other than what he looked like.
They met up at a rooftop bar in West Hollywood. She noted that he was cute, but their conversation wasn’t great.
Still, the date was going well until he started talking about how weird he thought online dating was. This made Ella uncomfortable and slightly confused because they had met each other through online dating.
Then, he began to ask her personal questions, like how long ago her last relationship was. When she told him it had been a couple of years since her last relationship, he started questioning what was wrong with her since she had been single for so long.
At that point, they had been at the bar for about an hour, and Ella was almost finished with her drink, so she looked for an opportunity to make an exit soon. Then, he brought up his ex-girlfriend and how he wished she was there on the date with him.
He proceeded to order another drink and continued to ramble on about very odd topics of conversation.
After two and a half hours, he finally asked Ella if she recognized him from somewhere. She told him that she did not know him, but he kept insisting that they had met before.
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He claimed that he had been in one of her TikTok videos. To prove it, he went onto her TikTok account, scrolled down, and clicked on a video she had filmed that was about three minutes long.
He fast-forwarded the video to the end, paused it, and pointed to a dark, shadowy clip of himself and his friend sitting at the back of a bar she had visited one night.
In that video, Ella mentioned that she and her friend had a strange interaction with two guys that night.
Her date asked if she had been referring to him and his friend. Ella was stunned that he would jump to such conclusions and declared that they had never met before in her entire life. She was also starting to fear for her safety.
He truly believed that Ella had recognized him from the video she took that night and somehow manipulated him to go on a date with her. While waiting for the check to arrive, they sat in silence.
Finally, he paid for the drinks, and they walked outside. She gave him an awkward hug and rushed away. The next day, he texted her, asking if she wanted to watch a movie together. Of course, she declined and resolved to be a little more cautious about who she chooses to go on dates with.
https://www.tiktok.com/@ella_elbells/video/7290582142772464939?_r=1&_t=8gfYxkesQ82
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