He’s currently making double his old salary, and so he and his wife decided to go shopping for a new home.
“We were looking at homes, and it just hit me all at once,” he said. “I don’t love her anymore and have only [gone] through the motions and stayed for the kids.”
“I have never forgiven her for the affairs and the lies. I told her I wanted a divorce and to come to an agreement without lawyers if possible. I am just consumed by fear and guilt. I feel like I’m going to tear our family apart and crush my kids. They don’t deserve this.”
“My father passed away when I was 14-years-old, and I fear losing out on time with my sons. I know staying would be easier, and I have way more to lose than her. I lose time with my sons either way, and it just tears me apart thinking about it. I feel trapped, but I know I need to leave.”
What makes it all even worse is that his wife is pleading with him to not divorce her. She says she just needed him to threaten that as a “wake-up call” to finally “grow up.”
His wife is promising she’s going to change for him and for their sons. She would like him to give her a second chance to prove this all to him.
Unfortunately, this just makes him feel even more guilty and bad for wanting to divorce her.
What do you think he should do?
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