Her Ex Stopped Her From Getting Into His Friend’s Car Because He Knew His Friend Might Try To Harm Her
As an adult, making and retaining meaningful friendships is hard, especially for men, it seems. Perhaps that’s why men often stay friends with people even if they have shown questionable moral character.
TikToker Haily (@_alrighty__aphrodite_) is discussing how her ex-boyfriend stopped her from getting into his friend’s car because he knew his friend might try to harm her.
“One thing that really confuses me about male friendships is how sometimes they will be friends with other guys they would never let their sisters, girlfriends, whatever, alone in a room with. Let me set the scene for you,” Haily started out the video.
When she was in college, she dated a guy who worked at a bar. At some point, they broke up. However, they still were in this weird relationship where they weren’t officially together but acted like a couple.
One day, she went to meet him at the bar. He made her some drinks while she hung out with the other people there. At the end of the night, she realized she had more to drink than she had meant to, so she wasn’t able to drive home.
The guy she had been hanging out with all night was sober, and he offered to give her a ride back. He was one of her ex-boyfriend’s friends.
She agreed since her ex-boyfriend was busy closing up the bar, and she was ready to go home and sleep. So, she said her goodbyes to everyone and headed outside. The guy already had the car door open for her when her ex came rushing out.
He pulled Haily aside and whispered that she should not get in this guy’s car. Then, he told his friend that he would take her home instead, but his friend protested. They had a little spat, and then Haily and her ex went back inside.
She asked him what all that was about and said she had thought that guy was his friend. He told her that the guy was his friend but that she should never get into a car alone with him because he knew he had other intentions.
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In the video, Haily added that her ex was not a jealous person. They had an agreement with each other that they could hit on other people while they were still in a relationship.
But she found it extremely odd that her ex would be friends with someone who would take advantage of a drunk girl. And they were friends for years. They hung out at the bar together, and she would often see her ex post pictures with that guy on social media.
Several TikTok users pointed out that the company someone chooses to keep actually speaks volumes about their own character.
“Why on earth would someone be friends with someone like that? Very telling about the person IMO,” commented one user.
“Their friends are who they are when you’re not around,” declared another.
“Girl, it’s because they are the same. The difference is it was too personal for your ex-BF. If it was a stranger, he wouldn’t care too much,” chimed in a third.
@_alrighty__aphrodite_ Like then why is he your friend??
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