Her Fiancé Made Her Get Plastic Surgery In Order To Get Engaged, But Now She Wants To Call Off Their Wedding
Six months ago, this 26-year-old girl’s 37-year-old fiancé proposed to her, and their wedding is set for this upcoming spring.
They dated for two years before getting engaged, and she admits that their relationship has been far from easy.
Her fiancé even broke up with her one time during the years they have been together, and they spent five months apart before getting back together.
She used to desperately want to get engaged to him, but now she is kind of feeling like she wants to call off their wedding completely.
“First off, I kind of had to give an ultimatum to get engaged, to which he responded he has not proposed all this time because of something in my looks that he’s not attracted to,” she explained.
“He asked me to get a specific plastic surgery to correct this issue and that he would pay for it, and only then he’s willing to get engaged. So, I went ahead and got the surgery.”
As for what kind of surgery she got, she had liposuction done on her legs from her thighs down to her ankles.
Her fiancé had said to her before the surgery that successful men don’t like women who are thick, and she thought he had to be right.
The liposuction didn’t make a big difference at all, and she has always carried weight in the lower part of her body.
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“Anyways, we get engaged, and I can still tell he’s not that attracted to me because the surgery didn’t really make a big difference,” she added. “Doesn’t compliment me, doesn’t really touch me, or initiate things with me. He doesn’t complain or bash my looks but doesn’t rave about it either.”
Unfortunately, she says this is hardly the worst part of their relationship. She is in grad school right now, and her fiancé is a doctor making over $500,000 a year.
Her fiancé is paying for their wedding, but he has rubbed that in her face twice already, talking about how she contributes nothing, so she can’t complain about anything since he’s the one working hard to pay for things. The only thing she has complained about is that they don’t spend enough quality time together.
“I just don’t know if I’m making a huge mistake getting married to him, I don’t want to be miserable,” she said.
“I am so anxious. I don’t feel like he loves me, he pushes me away when he’s having a bad day and doesn’t talk to me. I just feel kind of neglected in the relationship, but I also don’t want to be a victim and consider maybe he’s right about some things.”
“Breaking an engagement off is so embarrassing, and this would be his 2nd broken engagement, and I don’t want to do that to him.”
As for her fiancé’s first engagement, he said he ended it after this girl became too obsessed with planning the wedding, and he thought she turned into a different person as soon as he gave her an engagement ring.
What do you think she should do?
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