She Broke Up With Her Ex-Boyfriend Three Weeks Ago, But He Keeps Following Her Everywhere She Goes And Accusing Her Of Cheating, And It’s Really Starting To Freak Her Out
Three weeks ago, this 18-year-old girl broke up with her now ex-boyfriend, also 18.
The breakup was brutal, and her ex pleaded with her to give him a second chance, but she stood by her decision and told him she didn’t want to continue their relationship.
While she said that she’d be comfortable with the two of them remaining friends, she emphasized that she never wanted to be with him again on a romantic level.
After that, she requested that he allow her to have space because she wanted some distance from him for the time being.
“His actions have made it clear he’s not listening to me. For example, telling me ‘He’s going to win me back,’ and texting my sister, asking if there’s a chance that we’d get back together,” she said.
Her ex has continued to fight with her about why the breakup happened in the first place.
According to him, her reasons for breaking up with him weren’t logical, despite her walking him through it numerous times.
Since this has been going on for three weeks straight, she’s exhausted.
She and her ex-boyfriend attend the same college, and their dorms are near one another.
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Even though she understands that since they both go to the same college, she’s bound to see him, he seems to keep showing up out of nowhere.
“When I drove home after spending a weekend away last week, he was walking toward my car to help me carry my stuff as soon as I parked. I didn’t tell him I was coming back. I also was eating in a cafe on campus, and he showed up and started talking to me. As a university student, my car moves constantly. So, when I found that he’d left a ‘nice’ note on my car windshield, it creeped me out a bit,” she explained.
Despite being concerned about how her ex-boyfriend kept turning up, she brushed it aside and assumed that it was all coincidental.
A few days ago, her ex reiterated to her that her reasons for ending their relationship were illogical.
He concluded that the reason for the breakup must have happened because she found another man whom she wanted to be with instead.
This wasn’t true at all, and she’d never been unfaithful in their relationship, so she was furious that he insinuated something like this.
In her view, people who have affairs are some of the most awful people in the world.
After her ex-boyfriend accused her of cheating on him, she blocked him on social media and blocked his phone number.
Understandably, she was over the drama and was too tired to deal with his antics.
Once she blocked him, she drove three hours back to campus.
During the drive, her ex sent her two emails because that was the only means he had of getting in touch with her.
“But when I got to my campus and drove into the parking garage at 12:30 a.m., I drove up to the third floor and saw a person walking toward my car before realizing it was him. I freaked out and drove to the next floor, but he’d climbed the stairs and was following me. I finally left the parking garage and parked in temporary parking, but he followed me and was begging for me to talk to me,” she shared.
She screamed at him to leave her alone, and he was enraged, calling her “immature.”
Eventually, he left when she screamed at him once more to go away.
Obviously, she was terrified after this incident.
Now, she doesn’t want to leave her dorm because she’s afraid of seeing her ex again.
She has no idea how he always seems to know where she is, and she’s concerned that he’s spying on her.
Going forward, she doesn’t know what to do and wonders if she was a jerk for the way she acted.
What advice would you give her?
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