It Grossed Her Out When Her Brother Asked Her To Date His Friend So He Doesn’t Have To Pay Back The $10,000 He Owes Him
This 22-year-old woman’s older brother, 30, has a rich friend, 30, whose family is incredibly wealthy and comes from generational wealth.
Her brother and his friend operate a profitable startup company. Within the last year, they’ve worked to grow their company.
She’s in college and living with her parents and sister. Out of her entire family, she knows the least about her brother’s business ventures.
Usually, her parents or sister inform her of any big developments related to her brother and his friend’s company.
“There have been some financial ‘mistakes,’ and my brother owed his friend $10,000,” she said.
While she had no idea what happened, her brother talked to her one night and asked if she could help him with the debt. Her brother said his friend claimed he’d “overlook” the debt if she agreed to several dates with him.
Obviously, she was baffled and didn’t understand why she was being dragged into the mix. Plus, she hardly knows her brother’s friend, so hearing that he wanted her to go out with him was a shock. It didn’t take long for her to reject the idea.
“There’s no way I’d ‘date’ (a.k.a. sleep with) his friend just because he owed him money. The whole proposal made me feel really gross and cheap,” she explained.
Since this initial conversation, her brother has spent the last few days pleading with her to reconsider, claiming her agreeing to date his friend is the only way he can absolve himself of the $10,000 debt. Later, her brother’s friend texted her directly, and the conversation creeped her out.
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After receiving a text from his friend, she responded and told him he was gross and disrespectful, adding that he had no right to disrespect people just because he was rich.
He texted back and claimed he respected her, arguing that her brother was the one who didn’t respect her.
She countered that he needed to look elsewhere for relationships or affection, and he said he only wanted to be with her.
Then, he claimed that he doesn’t like when people reject him, and he doesn’t accept rejection. He asked why she wouldn’t change her mind, and she pointed out that he needed to accept her answer.
In another text, he told her he could give her the physical affection she needed, and she once again told him he was creepy and needed to go find someone who wanted to be with him.
After that, her brother’s friend mentioned that her brother was trying to “sell” her to clear his debt, telling her none of her family valued her.
Furious, she told him he was a terrible person, and he asked why he was a terrible person for thinking she was good-looking.
In response, she stated that humans aren’t “toys” he can purchase because he’s rich. He texted that she looked like a toy and went on to gush about how good-looking her body was, adding that she was created for him.
Continuing, he said that even though he isn’t usually attracted to “poor” women, he couldn’t help his feelings for her.
In his last text, he told her he’d always wanted to sleep with a woman who had heterochromia (two different-colored eyes).
“I’m being treated like some object to clear my brother’s debt. Now, my brother, as well as my parents, are angry with me for not dating his friend,” she shared.
According to them, no one demanded that she sleep with his friend, but in their view, she’s obligated to date him for a while to elevate her brother’s reputation. They accused her of being uncooperative and self-centered.
Luckily, her sister is on her side, as well as one of her male friends, for whom she happens to have romantic feelings.
At the same time, she acknowledged that anyone who’s a good person should take her side in this situation.
After her parents got involved, she decided to stay at her friend’s house for a while because she needed some space.
What advice would you give her?
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