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They both maintained that when you know someone is the one for you, that’s it, and timing shouldn’t matter.
They have spent close to two years together so far. They own a house, and they have a pet cat. Their wedding is exactly three months out, and the planning process has been a bit hairy.
Over the last week, she’s felt incredibly afraid and anxious about her big day. The planning process is not what’s causing her to feel this way.
Yes, she’s stressed out dealing with decorations and vendors and the girls in her bridal party. It’s also been hectic after her maid of honor bailed on her. Her fear and anxiety are centering on the act of getting married, though, not the process itself.
“I have no doubt in my mind that I wanna be with my fiancé,” she said. “When I think of my future, I think of him and our family.”
“But when I think about committing to someone for the rest of my life on this earth, I get this pit in my stomach. I am so scared that once we get married, something will happen to where I can’t escape. Maybe he’ll leave. Maybe something will happen. Maybe he won’t find me attractive anymore.”
“I feel AWFUL that I feel this way. My fiancé is my best friend, and I have never wanted to break up or be apart from him. But now that we are making it legally official, I am scared. I tried to talk to him about how I’m feeling, but he’s said he’s not feeling the same way, and I don’t want to make him worry that I don’t want to marry him. Because I know in my heart that I 1000% do…but I’m just so scared.”
What do you think she should do to get over her wedding day cold feet?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
