She Feels Disgusted That Her Boyfriend Used To Be The Creepy Guy Who Slid Into Every Girl’s DMs
Some guys take the approach of sliding into a girl’s DMs in an effort to try to spark some romance, and I’m not convinced this is a successful strategy.
It turns out it never worked for this 30-year-old woman’s 35-year-old boyfriend either. They’ve been dating for the last six months, and she never knew that her boyfriend used to be the creepy guy who slid into every girl’s DMs in a desperate bid for attention.
A girl she happens to work with just showed her a ton of messages her boyfriend sent to her on social media prior to them dating, and the messages were downright cringe.
The messages her boyfriend sent her coworker were along the lines of calling this girl “perfect,” showering her with affection, and asking when he could take her out on a date.
“He also did the same thing to her friend and someone else…basically, he just went after anyone and everyone,” she explained.
None of these girls responded to her boyfriend, but that didn’t stop him from sending them more messages.
To her knowledge, her boyfriend has not sent any more messages to these girls since they started their relationship.
Her current problem is she feels completely disgusted that her boyfriend came across with such desperation in his messages to all these girls.
“And it disgusts me that he would tell all of these women how amazing they are, and I have to basically beg for a single compliment,” she added.
dusanpetkovic1 – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“He also never asks me on dates but in the messages to other women, he would be asking them multiple times on dates.”
“He had put so much effort and gave so much attention to all of these women. But as a boyfriend, he puts in zero effort. I don’t understand that, and I don’t know how to process what exactly it is that I’m feeling.”
She understands that everybody has a past and that this is, unfortunately, her boyfriend’s.
Regardless, she now views him in a different light and has grown to resent that he isn’t giving her this same kind of attention and fawning all over her.
What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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