His Girlfriend Was Rude To Him At His Best Friend’s Wedding, So Now He’s Thinking Of Dumping Her
A 27-year-old guy has a girlfriend who is 26, and he’s been with her for little less than 1 year now.
Prior to meeting his girlfriend, his best friend asked if he would be a groomsman at his wedding, and he was allowed to have a plus one.
Then, he started dating his girlfriend, and after a bit of time, he asked if she would like to be his plus on to the wedding.
His girlfriend was thrilled and instantly said yes. He already had made all of the arrangements to get to the wedding, and he let her know that the only thing she had to do was book her own flights, as he already had a hotel room and rental car he paid for.
“The week before the wedding, she let me know that she really wanted to help out and split the bill for everything down the middle,” he explained.
“I said that I didn’t mind getting it, but if she really wanted to, I’d send her the split breakdown. Once I did, she began nitpicking my choices of reservations, saying she could have found them cheaper. That pissed me off since I told her I didn’t expect her to pay.”
“It also made more sense to stay at the venue with the rest of the wedding party. I felt very unappreciated and stupid. I relayed this to her, but all she did was begrudgingly agree on the plans and send me her half.”
Then, the day before the wedding, he and his girlfriend flew into a city located close to where the wedding was happening.
They thought it would be fun to go exploring, and although he had picked out a specific breakfast spot for them to check out, it wound up being closed.
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His girlfriend essentially reprimanded him for not doing better research, and off they went to a different place to grab breakfast.
After they finished eating and were walking around, he noticed that his stomach was really not alright, and he ran to the nearest restroom.
I spent a half hour in the bathroom, and his girlfriend just kept on texting him as if the whole thing was hilarious, which it obviously was not for him.
He finished up and met back up with his girlfriend, and they headed off to their hotel. On the way there, his girlfriend treated him like she was just ruining what was supposed to be her fun trip, and she was not being nice to him.
Later on, they made their way to the rehearsal dinner, and this was the very first time that his girlfriend got to meet all of his friends, as they all live in separate states.
His girlfriend was not comfortable at all, and he did his best to pay her compliments in front of all of his friends.
He also helped her out by making small talk with his friends in an effort to make her feel better, and eventually, she wasn’t so uneasy.
Throughout the dinner, as his girlfriend got more relaxed around his friends, she began making fun of the stomach problems he had earlier, and she did this in front of everyone.
It really hurt his feelings that while he was trying to make her look good to his friends, she was just making him look bad.
“The morning of the wedding, I think I had food poisoning from the night before,” he said. “I violently threw up for half an hour. She sat on the bed and didn’t check on me once. I asked if she could grab me a hand towel, and she came in and took Snapchat videos of me for her friends.”
At this point, I had less than an hour to get dressed and ready for bridal party pictures. I kept reiterating how stressed I was and was definitely weak and pale.”
He rushed to make it to the photos, and he almost didn’t get there in time. He then sent his girlfriend texts as he took photos, mentioning he felt really sick still.
His girlfriend didn’t reply back at all to any of his texts, though.
“When I finally saw her at the wedding after the ceremony, the other girlfriends and spouses laughed at me when one said, “OMG, your girlfriend told us how much of a mess you were this morning and how stressed you looked,” he continued.
“I expected that the whole interaction was going to be kept between my girlfriend and myself. I still wasn’t feeling the best.”
“A couple of my guy friends jokingly asked if I wanted a drink, knowing that I would say no because my stomach was upset. She proceeded to call me “weak” in front of all of them because I didn’t feel like drinking.”
The wedding kept going, and he managed to dance with his girlfriend briefly.
He then asked her if maybe they could have some special private time later, and she replied back that she didn’t think he was very clean after all of the stomach problems he had.
He felt so ashamed and gross because she wasn’t teasing him; she was serious.
The wedding finally came to an end, and he and his girlfriend climbed onto the shuttle that was taking them and some other guests back to their hotel.
“My girlfriend took the last open seat next to a random old man,” he added. “I had to sit up front near the driver. The passengers all shouted for me to play music.”
“For some reason, my phone wasn’t compatible with the AUX cord. My girlfriend chimed in, “Woooooooooow…” The other passengers all similarly booed. At this point, I was tired and just felt made fun of all day, so I just rode in silence.”
“I explained to her the next day on how I felt a bit neglected when sick and didn’t appreciate being made fun of in front of everyone. She just seemed annoyed that I “didn’t get her sense of humor” at all. She told me I was overreacting. We then traveled back home without discussing it further.”
He’s so hurt about how his girlfriend treated him at his best friend’s wedding that he’s thinking of dumping her.
Do you think he should?
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