Here Are 5 Reasons Why You Should Have A Wedding That Includes Children Instead Of Excludes Them
Weddings are one of the most important milestones in your life. So it is only natural to carefully plan out every detail– from the venue and decorations to food and favors– to ensure your day is picture-perfect.
When it comes time to make the guest list, though, love birds are often confronted with one big dilemma– whether or not they should have a child-free wedding.
Child-free weddings are on the rise, with many couples preferring not to worry about the issues that come with having kiddos at their nuptials.
For some soon-to-be brides and grooms, though, having a child-free wedding might not be their best option.
We recently discussed the five reasons why child-free weddings are ideal for certain couples. But below, let’s go over the key reasons why children should be afforded space on your guest list.
1. Children Bring Joy
It’s one thing if you and your partner absolutely hate kids. But, if you don’t, you might not want to miss out on the joy and laughter that children often bring.
Kids have infectious personalities that have a tendency to light up any room and put smiles on everyone’s faces. And since weddings are a celebration of love and happiness, having children around can only enhance the festive atmosphere.
On top of adding some free-loving spirit to your ceremony and reception, children can also help break the ice during the event.
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We all know that weddings are stressful for both the happy couple and most guests. But kids can be great conversation starters– bringing guests who don’t know each other together and creating a warm and welcoming environment for everyone.
2. Guest Accommodations
While brides and grooms may be the stars of the show, they still need to be considerate of their guests. In recent years, this has been done through increasing upfront communication about expectations, menu offerings that are cognizant of dietary restrictions, and sometimes even free transportation to the event.
But, perhaps one of the largest ways you can accommodate your guests who are parents is by allowing their kids to attend your wedding.
Even if you are a guest, going to a ceremony is still a cost-heavy endeavor. Attendees have to buy outfits, a wedding gift, and sometimes even fly in for the event.
So, if they have to leave their children behind with a babysitter, that is just another expense added to their attendance. Plus, the parents may not be as present and stress-free during your wedding if they are worrying about their kids at home.
By allowing kids to attend your big day, though, you cut out a lot of this anxiety. Parents can enjoy and celebrate the marriage with their children by their side. And perhaps they won’t have to leave as early to rush home and relieve their babysitter.
3. Children Are Part Of The Family
On a more sentimental note, kids are still a part of your family– no matter how young they might be. So, whether they realize it now or not, they will one day cherish the memory of being present at your nuptials.
Choosing not to invite your nieces, nephews, or cousins can also create family strife that is undoubtedly stressful during the wedding planning process.
So, you can look at having kids on your guest list as a positive– making everyone feel included.
4. Kids Can Add Meaning To Your Nuptials
If you look forward to one day starting a family, it only makes sense to include kids in your wedding. Nuptials are all about love and family anyway, right?
So, you can include a flower girl and a ring bearer to make the ceremony more meaningful. And this won’t just add an adorable touch to your event, but the kids will also help create a lighthearted and joyful atmosphere on a very nerve-wracking day.
Plus, including children in your wedding can create a special bond between you and your young family members, making the day even more special for everyone involved.
5. We Can Learn From Children
At the end of the day, it’s also important to remember that we can learn from children just as much as we teach them. Children are pure, innocent, and accepting, and they can teach us all about embodying real love.
So, by opting to include kids in your big day, you are showing that you value their unique perspective on one of our more intrinsically human feelings.
On top of that, children remind us to live in the moment and enjoy the present. Every couple can benefit from this on their wedding day, too, which tends to fly by much too quickly.
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